whats the best way to reconcile after argument with wife?

Answer 1

Tell her she was right and you were wrong, oh so very wrong, LOL

Seriously though, the best way is to keep your head during the argument. Arguing is healthy if you do it right. Never keep a score card, never say anything in anger. When the argument is over with, discuss what each of you has come out of it with the idea that.....(fill in the blank)

A back rub won't hurt either :P

Answer 2

Honesty. Make sure that the situation is truly resolved and then make each other feel safe. Depending on what the fight was about make sure that no one goes to bed that night without fixing the situation. If that is not done its guaranteed that the problem will resurface and bigger issues with result from it. Anger is a nasty side of all of us and it can make the best people into ugly and nasty people...make sure that you measure the level of anger that was shown from both parties and that you can erase that with matching that level with love after the fight. If let's say that on a scale of 1 to 10 that fight got ugly at a number6 make sure that the passion and love after is a good solid 7 and up that way bad memories are erased with good ones. good luck and love each other like every day is like the first time you guys kissed and the world seemed to stop moving.

Answer 3

I guess it depends on who won, the argument, I didn't say who is right , because the two sometimes are not the same.If you were in the definite right, do not gloat, and if you were in the wrong, admit you made an error, and can see it properly now. I might suggest that when the next argument arises, that you act, rather than react, by that I mean really listen to what she is saying and then stay silent and think about it and then answer, do not attack just answer

Answer 4

Depending on what you did or she did wrong cause most of the time it is the man who messes up. Well when you have time during the day call the flower shop and have some flowers send to her, especially her favorites. Then if you know how to cook call her and tell her your cooking tonight or just order take out andafter dinner give her a massage, massage her back her legs, shoulders and yes women love to have their feet massaged. HEll by the time your finished with the massage I gurantee you she will forget about what she was mad at and whoopie all night long. And always remember what happen to make that argument and learn from it and don't do it again. It works for me all the time.

Answer 5

That depends of the character of your wife and the reason for this argument.
If your wife is a kind of sincere and logical, nothing will help unless you discuss with her the matter. Don't try to be the guilty if you are not, this won't help; she wants a mature discussion.
If your wife is a kind of romantic type, sensitive one, then flowers and a loving smile, together with "I m sorry love, I will try to improve my behavior...etc" will help, and after that a sex can finish the job.
If your wife is a kind of a hot woman, just dont talk, take her to your bed and try to give her all of you only for her, as you don't exist.

Answer 6

You probably would like to just sit down and talk it over unlike my last year situation my wife reconciled alright,,she just let my 2005 Cadillac Escalade roll into a lake and that aint no lie./

Answer 7

I love the assumption by so many that he was wrong, LOL.

I agree, if you were wrong, then say I'm sorry.

But what if she was wrong, or it's simply a matter of preference?

Well, you can respectfully disagree. I.E.

"Honey, I love you, but don't agree that we should paint the bedroom pink. I understand you love pink. I hope you understand that pink makes me think of Peptobismal and that time I lost my lunch in third grade.

So, can we find another color for the bedroom that we both will enthusiastically embrace?"

You can apologize for arguing, but still respectfully hold your position and pledge to work WITH her to find a mutually satisfying solution.

Answer 8

The best way is to change your ways and tell her to forgive you. Take her out someplavce where you two can be alone. And speak to her from the heart, if you really are sorry, she will know and forgive you. The thing is that not everyone is perfect, and make sure to tell her that you sure arent perfect, but you will work to be perfect for her. That is sure to make her pleased. GOOD LUCK and I hope that everything works out for you two.

Answer 9

If I were you I would start by apologizing and then start the awesome hot wild make upsex, it's always the best.
But make sure you let her know you were wrong that you are very sorry don't just try and hit the sack first. lol.

Answer 10

First of all be the bigger person and say you're sorry...even if you don't feel at fault. Tell her that you hate fighting with her because you love her so much. Tell her you want to start over and forget it happened....it was stupid and not worth ruining the day over. Take it from there....she'll feel much better & appreciate your efforts.