i broke up with my gf some mnths ago and used to have best sex ever with her. but my new gf seems so dumb and low without any kinda passion. she acts like an innocent angel. and i starting to get annoyed by her caring and overwhelmingly sweet style of relationship.
i have lost my own interest as well now and cant seem to do as passionately as i did with my ex gf. i want to remain same way as before what should i do? will this relationship affect my future relationships if i break up?
i feel scared about not having that kind of love making ability again until i find a real wild woman.
2006-11-15 04:47:00 · 17 answers · asked by Going down 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why not try waiting for marriage? Seriously, when you are in a committed relationship/marriage sex is always better.
2006-11-15 04:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by newcovenant0 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's dumb...look who's talking. It's not about the woman's ability to bring passion. If you are intuitive and skilled, then pleasing her will bring out her wild side and passion. You were probably never that good...your last gf is gone right? Now, you still don't have a clue. It's not the sweet innocent's fault. I think you need some training so you understand how to bring the devil out of the angel. Otherwise, yes you're doomed to be lame in bed.
2006-11-15 05:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling. My Xwife and I had the best sexual relation, after we divorced I stayed away from women for about a year. When I started dating I finally met a woman that interested me and the sex we had was great good sex but after about a year it was just the same thing time in and time out. I thought it over and just came to the conclusion that she was just not as creative or secure as my x was. I think you might just be lacking the emotional connection that allows for super passion freaky sex. As for having the passion, if you need a wild woman then that is what you need.Just keep an open mind, the one your with just might need time to grow sexually with you. Then again maybe she is a wet blanket.. You have to make the call.
2006-11-15 04:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by Casca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend, you say, is dumb, low, lacking in passion, and overwhelmingly sweet. You sound like you are in a relationship with her only for the not-so-good sex. Let her go so she can find someone who will appreciate an innocent angel. Go get yourself a nasty girl.
2006-11-15 04:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you haven't let go of your x-girlfriend...That is your number 1 problem....You cannot compare each relationship to another....Best thing to do is to cut all ties with your x and give this girl a real chance...The more you think about your x the more you will not like your new girl....It is time to move on "Onward and Upward" is what my x said to me once,long before we broke up...Words to live by...Take your girl by the hand,look into her eyes,(look deep) and see the real person behind the pretty face.Then focus all your attention of that moment on her,no one else...You will then start to realize how special she really is and then be able to move forward in this relationship...Give it a try,as long as you hold onto the past,you are destined to live in it...Good luck
2006-11-15 04:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by Frank D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you shouldnt compare every relationship to your exgirlfriend...that will effect every relationship you have in the future....also....just because your girl is playin it all safe and innocent now doesnt mean you cant change that...i used to be the same way....you guys should try different techniques...pull out the old kama sutra book...bring out the video camera...buy her some sexy lingerie....women love that! good luck!
2006-11-15 04:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by Jackeeeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intelligence is attractive isn't it? If she is not on the same page with you in that area that's more than likely the issue here.
2006-11-15 05:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by Credit Expert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is obviously not the right woman for you, why do you keep the relationship going?
2006-11-15 04:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by javelin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a ho that rocks and brings out the best in you
2006-11-15 05:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk to her about it . teach her i bet she will be a willing to get wild . just not too wild at first . she maybe wilder than the first girl ? as for me i like to teach them . get her to loosen up !!!
2006-11-15 04:56:26 · answer #10 · answered by dirtdevil215 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋