Marriage & Divorce - 15 November 2006

I hate the word...but I am divorced. It didn't end bad and we are friends. He was controlling and it changed my personality and i knew i had to get out of the relationship. Why can't I feel good about saying I did the right thing It kills me to tell people i meet ...especially men ?? Help

2006-11-15 10:26:24 · 7 answers · asked by Tropical 1

Seriously. My husband is the hardest person to shop for.

2006-11-15 10:22:07 · 15 answers · asked by pinkee 3

i am prior active duty and my husband is currently active duty. i went to talk to a lawyer about getting a divorce today. he said that my husband, who is an e-4, will be paying around $300-$400 a month for both of our children. this is not enough to help me raise our 2 babies! he went by the texas state guidelines though. is there any way that this could be wrong? it would seem that he should help with more. if there is anyone who has gone through this situation could you please give me some advice? i would greatly appreciate it!

2006-11-15 10:20:59 · 4 answers · asked by portuguese_tease 2

I think that it is a shame that the old-fashioned custom of a wife being called by her husband’s name has gone by the wayside.

2006-11-15 10:15:47 · 15 answers · asked by Julie 3

But, he does have a proper visa (it expires in eight years). Can I still get married in the United States. PLUS..how long before I can arrange for him to get his citizenship? I am looking for basic information about this subject. any help appreciated!

no derragatory comments about illegals, mexicans, or immigrants.

2006-11-15 10:12:38 · 8 answers · asked by celina m 2

have been married to him for 15 years, i think friends and family should know my name.

2006-11-15 09:55:44 · 31 answers · asked by mama 1

when you ignore them and act like you dont care when they yell at you. Its really funny.

2006-11-15 09:53:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

he has been nice when around me but I still feel uncomfortable around him. My wife feels I shouldnt be and I am not being fair because I dont think it is fair to me to have to spend time around him. He wants to go to her parents because he is fighting with his mother and sister and not going to their house.

2006-11-15 09:53:05 · 33 answers · asked by rottn30 2

This is about my new fiance--i have already posted about him being a mama's boy, but when it comes down to it, he tells his mother everything--i mean everything--this pisses me off to no end and i don't know what to do-i am fed up---he thinks that since he was the only child they could have he has to be some angel and tell them what they want to hear-he does not stand up for himself and i am sick of it--we just got engaged but i do not want to live with his parents anymore---he thinks its ok 2 live at home till ur 25 or married or whatever and more and more i feel like an outsider--i always get out voted on things, and he says he loves me, but i feel like he truly does not care-its only what his parents want and what makes his mom happy--he seems more and more like a whimp and i have stopped confiding in him--tell me, would you risk a long term relationship/relationships in general with girls just to make your mom happy? i don't feel i stand a chance! Help!

2006-11-15 09:52:13 · 15 answers · asked by SuzyBelle04 6

2006-11-15 09:48:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-15 09:47:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

any ideas on speechs and jokes????

2006-11-15 09:47:08 · 16 answers · asked by memegettingmarried 1

2006-11-15 09:45:23 · 12 answers · asked by ann jo 3

i ave met a gal ove the matri site but i donno how shud i ask her number cuss previously wen i asked another gal she refused me so m bit affraid this time and dont wanna take any chance!!!

2006-11-15 09:45:03 · 10 answers · asked by amyin 2

how come when they realize they have lost the argument, instead of admitting they are wrong and apologizing like the man is forced to do when he is wrong, the woman will start bringing up stuff that he did long after he has forgotton when she is even talking about. Us men dont bring out the mistakes you made in the past.

2006-11-15 09:36:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

About 3 months ago i directed my trouble disciplining my step daughter, in an emotional outburst, where i used foul language and made the huge mistake of saying "you don't like that **** you can leave"... I know i errored big time, but i loved my step daughter more than anything in the world. My wife also told my parents that her daughter worships me. My wife trusted me to watch her all day while she was at work. In the morning my step daughter would crawl into bed with me and we would watch cartoons. She was my world, but i only had less then 90 days to adjust to the living situation. I knew what i was getting into, but i stumbled once and it was big time. My wife has sinced moved out and filed for an anullment, and has also cut off all communication with me. I know i pushed her as far away as i could and crushed her heart. I loved my step daughter so much she was my heart and soul. What do you think she is feeling or thinking, and can i still get them back????? I love them

2006-11-15 09:34:29 · 12 answers · asked by john d 1

Is once every two or three weeks bad? We're both fit, healthy, and attractive. We've been married for a year, but it's been like this since we first started dating. I don't think it's enough, he thinks it's fine. In your opinion, is something wrong?

2006-11-15 09:32:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my husband. But I recently met this guy who is 10 years younger than me and from a different country and I feel like I did when I was in high school! Is this normal to get crushes on people even though there is not a possibility for anything in the future? Is it wrong?

2006-11-15 09:30:46 · 25 answers · asked by Allison W 2

A good woman needs a good man to provide 100% of his heart in order to make it work. It is just a shame that weakness and cowardness attacks the brain, and aggressiveness becomes that man's answer, too bad his friends are just the same and can't seem to get it or else they would not side with him referring to your answer of blah blah blah earlier

2006-11-15 09:24:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

men cant live with them but can live without them

2006-11-15 09:23:58 · 12 answers · asked by ali_3ys 1

must be male 35 -40 years of age, must need a ready made family of five, kids range from 14 - 7.... obviously rich (w/ family size).

2006-11-15 09:20:32 · 13 answers · asked by simms 2

Who do I turn to regarding a divorce order? It states for neither my ex or I to make bad remarks about each other. Well he did I heard him on a speaker phone conversation with our daughter. He was supposed to pay me also still nothing. I dont have a lawyer who do tell?

2006-11-15 09:18:44 · 9 answers · asked by mperezwp 1

i left some pee on the toilet seat. the girl who got mad at me asked me why i couldnt have cleaned it up. she then said she cleans up when she misses. i can understand how a man with bad aim (me) can miss the toilet, but how can a woman miss the toilet????

2006-11-15 09:18:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would a woman who enjoys being single enjoy about being married ? What she enjoys about being single can't be part of her marriage . Why wouldn't she lose interest in being married after a while ? Wouldn't she miss the single life ? What's to stop her from going for a divorce the minute her marriage gets difficult ?

2006-11-15 09:16:45 · 5 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3

my wife complained that we never have forceful s e x. what does she mean. any suggestions

2006-11-15 09:16:22 · 25 answers · asked by gazzaprince 1

What would a woman who enjoys being single enjoy about being married ? What she enjoys about being single can't be part of her marriage . Why wouldn't she lose interest in being married after a while ? Wouldn't she miss the single life ? What's to stop her from going for a divorce the minute her marriage gets difficult ?

2006-11-15 09:16:09 · 5 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3

Sometimes I just feel invisible.

2006-11-15 09:12:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a woman who wants to get married, and she says "I don't want to get married", isn't that dishonest ? Why would anybody marry a woman who says "I don't want to get married" ? Does saying "I don't want to get married" somehow make a woman more attractive ? If a woman doesn't want to get married, won't she make a lousy wife ? Why would a woman who doesn't want to get married enjoy being married ? What's to stop her from going for a divorce the minute her marriage gets difficult ?

2006-11-15 09:10:26 · 19 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3

that if you give them video games, there sex drive will at least go down a little bit???

2006-11-15 09:07:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am dating a guy that has been divorced, and I want to read his divorce papers. we are starting to talk marriage. what do i need to do or where do i need to go to do that? how should i go about it?

2006-11-15 09:05:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous