i am prior active duty and my husband is currently active duty. i went to talk to a lawyer about getting a divorce today. he said that my husband, who is an e-4, will be paying around $300-$400 a month for both of our children. this is not enough to help me raise our 2 babies! he went by the texas state guidelines though. is there any way that this could be wrong? it would seem that he should help with more. if there is anyone who has gone through this situation could you please give me some advice? i would greatly appreciate it!
2006-11-15 10:20:59 · 4 answers · asked by portuguese_tease 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hi i just went though a divorce with my wife and the judge order her to pay little over 300.00 dollar a month to me the court go bye on how much the person make every 2 weeks on his or her pay check.and i have 2 little girls.put thank god i have other resource.but you one can raise children on 300-400 a month.I'm sorry but there is nothing you can do about it.and every year your husband get a raise in his pay you can take him back to court and ask for more money according to his pay raise.and if you every want some one to talk to you can always e- mail me take care.
2006-11-15 13:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by little_bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw mama i haven't gone through it but being a miltary wife off the gate i know it is for him being a specialist he should be paying you around 700 or 800 for 2 kids there is a website that you can go to Miltary.com and check out this site. don't listen to other person because him being married is still getting bah so i know that is for the family.
2006-11-15 10:25:23 · answer #2 · answered by God's chosen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A counselor, marriage counselor or some form of therapy. in case you prefer the marriage to paintings - you're able to take the 1st step in forgiving and letting pass. in case you won't be able to try this - then you definately enable the marriage pass. specific, he cheated. some men do - all of the time. some in simple terms as quickly as. as much as you methods badly you prefer to paintings this out. So techniques and suggestion is paintings on your self. Get counseling to help get previous the melancholy. Or in case you do no longer prefer expert counseling or won't be able to deal with to pay for it - attempt finding some books to help. i'm no longer suggesting engaged on your self as that for the duration of any way you're at fault. i'm suggesting engaged on your self - for your self. no remember the way it seems - you prefer to be a solid, healthful individual. The extra you're able to nicely be that - the extra helpful you are able to handle themes.
2016-10-22 04:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by haan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
military goes by home of record partialy, when your spouce is in the military they factor in medical, prescription, and dental coverage that is covered by the military, so your monatary amount is less than someone whos spouce isnt in the military.
2006-11-15 10:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by jason 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋