When women fight..?

Question

how come when they realize they have lost the argument, instead of admitting they are wrong and apologizing like the man is forced to do when he is wrong, the woman will start bringing up stuff that he did long after he has forgotton when she is even talking about. Us men dont bring out the mistakes you made in the past.

Answer 1

BIPOLAR!

Answer 2

See your not being totally honest here.

My husband brings up things from the past that should be long forgotten when we fight.

Men may not bring it up as often but they do.

And as far as women not admitting that they were wrong, chances are they weren't. They felt they were right and you were wrong.

Chances are you were arguing over something that you did. And that you had probably did before and I'm sure you made her a promise to never do it again and you broke that promise.

But if I start an argument with my husband and I am in the wrong I will admit it and apologize. Women are capable of this just like men.

Chances are your woman still feels she had a point and wasn't wrong. But, if she was in the wrong then she should step up and admit it.

Answer 3

Pride. Some women have it bucket loads. Admitting that they are wrong is also like admitting that you were right. Depending on the subject of the argument women aren't likely to admit to something that they feel that they should be experts on or on something that challenges their values, like being a good woman or mother etc.

A woman know whens she's wrong and you know when you are right. There is no need to drive the point home any further than making it. No need in flaunting it by demanding a confession.

Make your point and move on. She heard you.

Good luck!

Answer 4

From my experience guys DO bring stuff forward from the past. At least the ones that drive you nuts! Not fair.

Try to listen to what she really wants in your relationship, try to learn more about how women think. Then try to see if together you can create the situation you BOTH will be happy with. If she's happy then she will be WAY less likely to keep springing these things on you.

Or you could try to get her memory wiped out. :)

Answer 5

first off not too many men ever do admit they are wrong! secondly, we usually bring it up again because it has yet to really be resolved, just ignored, and lastly there are no mistakes in life just lessons. Unless you repeat the same one then its a mistake.

Answer 6

I don't know- that's not what I do. If I'm wrong, I can admit it- I don't need to go into a character assassination to prove a point. Some women are just immature little creeps.

Answer 7

Women never forget. They can remember something you did 20 years ago... the day, the time of day, what you were wearing, where you were at, who saw it, who heard it, what the weather was like, and they will not hesitate to remind you about this. It's called unfair fighting my man, unfair fighting.

Answer 8

properly whether this is a combat over a guy this is hassle-free to be mad at a lady for taking your guy than to realize your coronary heart is broken at this guy. so which you will supply it yet another risk in case you think of she set him up. different fights properly us women folk have a sister hood factor and as quickly as one is going over that its on.

Answer 9

Women can be vindictive creatures when they feel like it; know all the rules and have all the answers. You're a guy so how you feel is insignificant to how they think or feel. It's sad but true.

Answer 10

whenever i got into a fight, my mistakes were brought up too. that's the way it is. people can't forgive. they think their actions are justified because of something in the past. get over it people!

Answer 11

..lol..speaking for myself, I don't ever do anything stupid enough to get called out on! I think with my head, luckily I don't have to choose between two heads.... ^_^ thiink b4 u leap!!