How can you get your husband to pay attention to you?

Question

Sometimes I just feel invisible.

Answer 1

I think we all experience this as women. Men get bored of us so easily. Unfortunately we are emotional saps. Try to find something that you enjoy doing and let yourself get absorbed in it. Try paying a little less attention to him (I know when I do this, it seems to make him wonder why I am not focusing on him and he comes around). Do what feels comfortable to you. Try not to dwell on it or argue over it as that is just going to push him further away when that is the last thing you want. Try like I said to put a little more into yourself and doing some things that make you happy that you enjoy. He'll come around when he notices he is being paid less attention to. Right now it's too convenient for him. He knows you'll always be waiting on him. Let him see you are busy having fun and carefree, watch the attitude change. ;)

Answer 2

Hon i think thats just how it goes sometimes. When a man has alot on thier mind or is stressed out they just like to be alone and dont want to be bothered. I get the same thing sometimes and i used to get upset over it but hey there are times when i dont want to be bothered either. i know it sucks to feel invisible but i dont even think they realize what they are doing half the time. Dont stress about it unless you think there are other reasons for acting like that.

Answer 3

Be more interesting that whatever he is interested in. That's the bottom line.

Right or wrong, if he doesn't pay attention to you, that means something is more interesting to him than you are.

You know him better than we do, so you will have to figure out how to attract his attention.

We can all give suggestions, such as dress up as a cheerleader for his favorite basketball team and ask him if he wants to play a little one-on-one with you.

However, only you know if that would really work.

Answer 4

Tell him how you feel and if he still does not pay any attention to you then tell him you will find someone who will or just go out for 2 or 3 hours even if you aren't doing anything it will get his attention. Taking a shower together is also nice you could suggest this.

Answer 5

Make dates with him and go out for dinner, dancing etc. Dress up nicely, take turns picking the restaurant. Focus all your attention on him and flirt with him. He'll get the message and will look forward to spending time with you.

Answer 6

They're so wrong. A man pays attention when he is afraid he will lose you. Don't get emotional and try to increase your separate life. IF he care he'll straighten up.

Answer 7

Have his favorite dish ready, unplug the television, Not turn it off UNPLUG it, unplug the telephone, and wear your most sexy nighty or lingerie, and be waiting for him. If he's tired have him a nice hot bubble bath ready for him with his favorite beverage., If this don't work, your marriage is pretty much over.

Answer 8

Happy couples know that the real relationship begins when the honeymoon is over. They know that unless you maintain the garden of love, its beauty will wither and die. In your case unless you are able to communicate with him, I would advise you to go to marital counseling.

Answer 9

Have a HOT HUNK in bed with you when he get's home from work! :-)

Have you sat him down and asked him what gives??

Let him know you feel invisable. If he doesn't seem to care that your feeling this bad, maybe you need a break. Get a seperation.

IF you don't work, get a job. You'll feel better about yourself.

Answer 10

Don't just feel invisible. Be invisible. Don't do anything. He will soon notice.