my wife complained that we never have forceful s e x. what does she mean. any suggestions
2006-11-15 09:16:22 · 25 answers · asked by gazzaprince 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
IT DOESN'T MEAN UR BORING ... It is nice to have ur guy be nice and sweet but most of us girls like it rough...you don't necesarily need to rip her clothes off....it is as simple as you talking nasty to her while doin it. Take charge in bed...most of us like that...we want a tiger not a kitty...kiss her neck & talk nasty to her while "caressing her". Don't ask her to change positions ...make her change positions...you know stuff like that...treat her like a *&^%& (even tho she is not) we like it...ONLY IN BED!!
2006-11-15 11:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by babygirlxx68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she just wants it rough n ready, which can be harmless, but whatever you do agree on a certain saying or action that will tell the other when to deffinately stop. Many a times has it happended that one or the other likes to hold someone struggling down and so call 'force' themselves upon them, when it has gone too far and the word 'No' or 'Stop' is not taken seriously. Play in the bedroom is acceptable, as long as you both agree on a few rules and boudaries. Have fun!
2006-11-15 22:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by Need_to_know 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your situation sounds strangley similar!!!
I say the same thing to my man and he hasn't a clue!
What she means is she wants to be gripped, pulled about, and held down. She wants you to use your stregnth and take full control. Do you ever just get in the mood that you just want to give it to her?
Use that, if not then it might come accross that you are not interested. She wants you to want to give it to her.
Try this...
One day out of the blue, just grab her by the shoulders and slam her up against the wall - don't hit her head!
Hold her hands behind her back with one of your hands and just let your other roam her body, grip her tightly.
Then maybe grab her neck and kiss her hard.
Take her and throw her on the floor or over a table, hold her hands behind her back and hold her hair too - pulling it slightly.
Then feck her with everything you have got.
That kind of thing.
2006-11-15 22:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not talk to her. The complaint might be based on something entirely different. Sometimes the fantasy is not all that great in reality! You may find something out about yourself and her after your talk. She's not saying that you are bad at sex. She still only loves you. She may just want to try to spice things up a bit with you.Try some role playing in a safe and secure place! Set up special "dates" with this in mind, don't forget props and costumes. But above all else TALK first.
2006-11-15 09:34:28 · answer #4 · answered by believer 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She want's it rough!!!!! She wants you to iniate it and just take control!! One night (or day or afternoon), in the bedroom, maybe while the two of you are watching a movie or something, just roll over, take your clothes off and her clothes off and just get wild. Have wild passionate rough sex. Good Luck!!!
2006-11-15 09:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by ladystarrchild107 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I suggest a book like Joy of Sex. Yahoo doesn't allow you to expand much on this kind of stuff here. My wife and I have a Kama Sutra book. That might help too.
2006-11-15 09:20:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
oh she wants you to fling her about a bit,tie her up order her around make her do things to you that she dont normally do.
Just get a little rough treat her like a **** (i dont mean that nasty by the way)but some chics luv it ;)
2006-11-15 09:21:18 · answer #7 · answered by robertboozychic 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It means she wants freak nasty sex not love making. Don't go for the caressing and kissing and cuddling... rip her clothes off throw her on the bed and have your way with her!
2006-11-15 09:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by Cristy B 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
You should ask what she means - I would guess she wants you to be more passionate, urgent or maybe rough. Ask her.
2006-11-15 20:37:38 · answer #9 · answered by John H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your wife about this
2006-11-15 09:20:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋