What would a woman who enjoys being single enjoy about being married ? What she enjoys about being single can't be part of her marriage . Why wouldn't she lose interest in being married after a while ? Wouldn't she miss the single life ? What's to stop her from going for a divorce the minute her marriage gets difficult ?
2006-11-15 09:16:45 · 5 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because she said yes. The man must love her to ask, the woman must love him to say yes. We all enjoy being single until we want to be married....so, she has a choice. If she is not ready, she should say no. Do not assume "no" just because she appears to like being single more.
1) What would a woman who enjoys being single enjoy about being married ?
Be with the person she has fallen in love with
Perhaps have children
2) What she enjoys about being single can't be part of her marriage .
She needs to be told that up front and then she gets to decide what is most important for her.
3) Why wouldn't she lose interest in being married after a while ?
There are no guarantees of that in any marriage, it is just what we all hope for, that the interest never goes away.
4) Wouldn't she miss the single life ? Not if the married life is what she wants more. There may be certain aspects she will reminisce about, but not with a greater longing that the one she has for her spouse.
5) What's to stop her from going for a divorce the minute her marriage gets difficult ?
What is to stop any human being, man or woman from doing this? COMMITMENT
2006-11-15 09:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by gare 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person can still enjoy alot of the things they did as single once they are married. The person just has to weigh the benefits of being single, and see if that's reason enough to not get married. Marriage doesn't mean you have to spend 24/7 with your spouse. And nothing, other than love, will stop anyone from running as soon as trouble hits.
2006-11-15 09:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by Eric B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she changed her mind. Life changes, so do her goals and her outlook. Face it, being single isn't always much fun. If she found someone that she is compatible with, and that she is in love with, that can change a girl's mind fast! The companionship is the big difference, and the commitment makes the relationship different than any she has ever experienced. If she has the maturity to truly want the commitment, then no she shouldn't ever miss being single.
2006-11-15 09:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't. If she enjoys being single that much, chances are it won't last long!!!
2006-11-15 09:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by TPowderly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say if she wasn't ready or interested in marriage, why do it? It's a lifelong commitment, not a hobby.
2006-11-15 09:18:57 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋