have been married to him for 15 years, i think friends and family should know my name.
2006-11-15 09:55:44 · 31 answers · asked by mama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If the invitation was sent to someone else to get made, I wouldn't blame them, but if it was personally made and they can't get your name right after 15 years I think both of you should not go because that is just plain disrespectful to you and he should agree and stand by your side.
2006-11-15 09:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LET? ADDRESSED TO HIM AND A FEMALE FRIEND? I don't understand why mail would come to your home like that, unless that friend lives with you all. OR.......something is up with that? I don't understand how a females name would get on mail coming to your home. There is more to this. And HE** no he can't go with her. Matter of fact I would start doing a little background checking and see what else I don't know. More info is needed, but to the question letting him go to a function with some female, I don't care how long you been married with anyone besides a male companion is out of the question. There is more to this story and how did they get that female name with his? HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM????? This came from a family member? Yes, they should know your name by now. Maybe they made a mistake, call and see. If its a family event, why wouldn't you be invitied? Does his family have something against you and something for her? Are they trying to start somthing with you and your husband? He might not be doing anything and they are starting some trouble, ask your husband to call and get an invitation for the two of you or neither of you should attend. It might just be a mistake, but you should find out. More info PLEASE!
2006-11-15 10:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't a question of whether you should 'let' your husband go to an event, it's a question of: why does he want to go without you?
You don't say what kind of an event this is, but you mention friends and family. Yes, they should certainly know your name after 15 years, but if it's a large event, there's always the possibility that someone just got numb in the brain when they were writing invitations, and had a momentary glitch when it came to your name. I've had similar mental lapses when writing out Christmas cards and felt very foolish when I realized what I had done. Luckily, my husband noticed my mistake (he was putting stamps on the envelopes after I addressed them) and pointed it out to me, so I could correct it. But it could easily have slipped through without either of us noticing.
Why not call the person who issued the invitation, make a joke of it, and ask for a new invitation?
Or better yet, have your husband call them.
2006-11-15 10:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it was not a typo? I sent an invitation to my sister who's name is Aimee and her husband Jason. Problem I called her Nikki, why because my friend who was also going to the event was going out with a Jason.
As far as I am concerned without any more information we can not help you. If the family is constantly making mistakes like this I would say that it is suttle hints that somethings wrong. If it is just a one time thing maybe things should be forgivened.
PS I have known my sister for 27 years.
2006-11-15 10:13:36 · answer #4 · answered by live4logan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible that someone just made a mistake in addressing the invite?
I think you need to know more before jumping to conclusions. There are numerous explainations for this, and not all of them include him cheating.
2006-11-15 10:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if this event is with co-workers and they drive separately and it is during the day. Otherwise no way! Other than business, why were they invited as a couple?
2006-11-15 10:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What type of event? Who was the other female? Who sent the invitation?
Depending on what those answers are, my answer to your question may be yes or no. However, if it's yes, I'd go with him. I wouldn't like it if he went without me.
2006-11-15 09:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are married doesn't mean you have the right to not give your husband permission for anything.
Who was the other female name? Was it a mistake and it was suppose to be your name? Why aren't you going with him?
2006-11-15 09:58:22 · answer #8 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ouch!!!! I would ask friends and family what's up with the name on the invite. If you don't like the answer, then don't attend. Your husband should have your back on this one.........
2006-11-15 10:17:45 · answer #9 · answered by P-Nut 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the person who sent the invitiation and ask them who is this other person that they invited along with your husband? No one by that name resides at your house.
2006-11-15 10:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋