why do men go for trash having something good at home?

Question

men cant live with them but can live without them

Answer 1

Probably for the same reason women do, because they lack good character.

This is not a gender issue, as for every man who cheats, there is a woman cheating right there with him. (The men are not cheating with other men, are they?)

So it's not a man/woman thing, it's a character thing.

Cheaters lack character, regardless of gender.

Answer 2

:) Because they really aren't trash. They look like trash to the hurting and angry spouse male or female but in essence they are human beings like you and I.

Truth is that there is something that this person brings to him that you just don't.

Get that confidence back again get that sexy swagger working again and even if at first your hubby doesn't notice, you will get enough male attention that your confidence will raise regardless of him. He'll notice and wonder if what he has in the street is more valuable than what he has at home.

Even if he doesn't you'll still be fly enough to get an even better guy because you'll sort of know what to avoid.


For the record, women are notorious for this behaviour. Of course their excuse is never sex its always "I'm not happy at home" Same difference. I can promise you that a cheating man feels the exact same way.

Answer 3

Ask David Justice why he cheated on Halle Berry, or Brad Pitt on Jennifer Aniston, or wha's his name with the nanny. The answer is novelty. (Forgive the generalization but...) Most men are creatures of pursuit, by conditioning. From the time we discover girls, we're constantly in pursuit mode, egged on by peers and our developing hormones. When you think about it, men spend far more of their pre-marriage years in the pursuit than in committed relationships. It's difficult to turn it off. So there's an explanation, not an excuse.
When things become too easy or too routine, men crave adventure, a challenge. (Ever watch a guy beat a video game and throw it away? The same principle applies here.) For older men, sometimes being with a younger, attractive woman is somehow reassuring that he is still attractive and virile. We men are simple creatures of habit, conditioning and competition.

Answer 4

Some men do that because the other woman will do things that their wife won't do sexually. Some guys have trouble asking their wives for what they want, but can ask someone they hardly know. Cheating is wrong regardless of the situation. Once someone, man or woman, cheats, it's just that much easier for them to do it again.

Answer 5

Because they don't know the meaning of LOVE or an honest relationship!! They are with this kind of people for pleasure and because they have no responsabilities or obligations with this "people"... There are just there to be with (sex), have fun, waste $$$ just to show off .. Because all of a suden this people are not serious in a relationship with any one like this ... That's why most men do prefer a moment of pleasure than a true relationship!!!!

Answer 6

to feed their ego.
their machoness.
to remain taboo.
lack of self control.
it doesnt matter if the woman at home does full fill what a trashy girl would do (in bed) these men have no self control and no respect for anyone but their own needs.

Answer 7

familiarity with something in their past, that makes them feel confortable. odviously they didn't think they had anything at home, and as a result of their thinking, people get hurt, marriages end. he feels confident and attractive because someone is giving him some attention, so trashy or not he chooses to go for it. maybe he doesn't see her as trashy.this is mostlikely what kind of woman they had in their past, and it feels okay to them.

Answer 8

Because trash does what the wife wont do.

Answer 9

Age old thing.......they think the grass is greener on the other side...don't appreciate what they have......selfish god damn pigs....don't put up with it, give him an ultimatum.

Answer 10

Trashy is as trashy does.