Marriage & Divorce - 15 November 2006

2006-11-15 03:44:02 · 10 answers · asked by rajeshvarirajeshvari 1

we men are not the fault for your cheating,

2006-11-15 03:28:43 · 29 answers · asked by lesuiremike 2

this is a very crucial question I am serious i don't have time to be lying about anything.It was told to me that his mama is doing cocaine. The family know most of them, my husband is in the army and getting ready to deploy. his mama is 3 states away and doing drugs and tricking do i tell him. His sibling know and discuss it with each other what do i do? Serious answers!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-15 03:25:59 · 35 answers · asked by God's chosen 3

a message telling her I will be late for dinner?

2006-11-15 03:20:06 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

A little over a year ago me and my husband had a rough time with some things and almost got divorced. We were seperated for a little over a month and then he came back saying that he wanted to work things out. He's in the military and it's hard to go day by day without some sort of rumor getting started. I admit that I done some things that I shouldn't have like for instance I spent a lot of money but I guess I was using the money as a crutch since I was so far away from my family. But I never did cheat on him. When he got back from Afghanistan that's when rumors started flying saying that I was messing around and I know exactly who started it. All that matters is that he came back and was willing to work things out. Now over a year later, he says that he can't get all of those things out of his head. I don't know what to do, I love him and I'm just wanting to save our marriage. Can someone give me some insite on what to do?

2006-11-15 03:18:33 · 14 answers · asked by brooke_herrin 1

sHE HAS NEVER HAD A PROBLEM WHEN I DROP HER OFF AT DAY CARE HE HAS BEEN THERE FOR 4 YRS AND HE CRIES NOW FOR THE LAST 3-4 MONTHS

2006-11-15 03:18:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-15 03:16:52 · 19 answers · asked by citizen high 6

My husband and I have been married for 6 years and we have 3 beautiful children. He is in the military and always deploys to iraq and every where else. My husband is my world my everything my life my salvation. Our children and my husband are the center of my heart. I feel I am a good wife and mother because I have never lied to him I tell him everything I have never cheated on him though he has cheated on me. I am always there for him when ever he needs me. I worry about him and I love him very deeply but he pushes me away. He say's that my love for him is sick because I love him too much. How can true love for my husband be too much for him. He act's like we are together 24/7. We are not. When we are at home he makes me feel like a queen but when we are in public and if I try to show any affection at all he pushes me away and makes me out to be a psycho crazy person, then when we get home oh go figure he is sorry. All I do is cry I am so hurt but still love him the same.WHY? i'm lost

2006-11-15 03:15:30 · 15 answers · asked by haynbabe808 1

My friend Ericia is only 16 years old and she is about to get married to a 28yr old man and i've tried to tell her that it's not gonna work ....What else should I do?

2006-11-15 03:12:22 · 20 answers · asked by sweetmama142003 1

throw in the towel quicker? i have always thought of women as being fed so much c r a p about fairy tales as children and this fantasy of prince charming that they are quick to give up if it is not that.
also, i always thought women were better at going warm to cold. i always was amazed at when a woman breaks up with you they become this sheet of ice. was always sort of disenchanting and made me more jaded to the whole thing.
what are other peoples opinions on this and do you agree or disagree with my ideas?

2006-11-15 03:09:32 · 24 answers · asked by jeremy k 1

Ex has primary custody but refuses to work. Therefore she is collecting government assistance. I pay child support as per the child support guidelines. I am wondering if any of that money is kept for my son or if it is taken by social assistance.

2006-11-15 02:59:37 · 20 answers · asked by missingonehalo 1

My wife has been talking to a male neighbor on her cell phone, she denies it...should I confront Him?

2006-11-15 02:55:48 · 23 answers · asked by dan d 1

high for a marriage to be considered healthy. also, on three different occasions over the past year during arguments my wife had told me that she sometimes regrets marrying me. i think as a result of this, i am depressed a lot of the time. i have always had low self esteem and this has definitely made my self esteem even worse. is this a bad situation? as far as marriages go, what percentile would this fall under as far as "bad situations" go. would this be in the bottom quarter of all marriages as far as quality? we have two kids. she complains about my family.. i feel like i am always walking on eggshells about to do something that will further aggravate her. this is not what a marriage is supposed to be is it?

2006-11-15 02:53:11 · 14 answers · asked by jeremy k 1

My baby girls dad left us when I was 6 months pregnant (baby is now 7 months). I think I still love him but then I think I really hate him for leaving. Then again I just want to have a complete family. What's a good way to find out what I feel? .

2006-11-15 02:46:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-husband was a control freak and abusive. He has custody of my daughter who is 14 and live in another state.

Now, we are thinking of reuniting for the sake of the child. However, he is still controlling - asking me to bring my computer that I use here which is not mine, pay him for the registration and insurance of the car that I would drive in his state.

I don't know if his controlling tendencies will ever change. He also says that I am selfish and its all about me, me and me . I try to negotiate with him about having some things my way if we get back together - own cell phone, keep money separately and not pay expenses of house.

How do I judge the situation?

2006-11-15 02:45:38 · 23 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

im doing an argument paper on divorce and i need a few ideas about how is divorce good for children.

2006-11-15 02:44:10 · 16 answers · asked by sam a 2

even you friends and relatives. They cheat, they are forgiven and move on. She says that only those women who beleive the myth that all men do not cheat divorce their husbands because of another woman and that thes very women will be the other woman soon.

2006-11-15 02:41:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

from cheating?

2006-11-15 02:38:00 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everyone I talk with about this has an agenda so I am asking complete strangers for neutral thoughts on this issue. Wow!
Should I file for divorce or are the benefits worth it?
If I file, I lose all health insurance, life insurance and pension rights if something happens to him. He is now paying the mortgage (almost $2000) and all of the tuition for the two kids ($1800) without an argument. He left me and is involved with another woman so it feels that by not filing I am saying that it is OK. My son has cerebral palsy. One marriage is enough so I am not looking to marry again. Any thoughts?

2006-11-15 02:37:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

he pretends he dont want me no more but still keeps getting involved in my life in a negative way, we have a kid together and both love him and share him equally, why does my ex use this to get in my face and my life? hes doing my head in! help

2006-11-15 02:37:27 · 18 answers · asked by kelly 1

Is it wrong (a sin) To have sex with another woman I feel guilty just thinking about it..

2006-11-15 02:31:35 · 9 answers · asked by israel g 1

or would that make me a stalker?! I really liked him and it made me question my current relationship but I satyed with it because I loved me boyfriend very much. That has now ended and I am heart broken, should I look this other guy up to help me get over it? shameless.

2006-11-15 02:24:02 · 10 answers · asked by Becky 1

i have been married almost 5 years, living together for seven years, and together for 10 years total. no children, but a 80 lb golden retriever whom we acquired together when the dog was a puppy. my husband has an engineering undergrad degree and a MBA from a prestigious university. he earns 6 figures plus annually. i have been in grad school throughout most of our marriage and only working part time. he has paid the majority of expenses over the years. we have no debt and about $200K in assets (mutual funds, IRA, stocks, etc). we own no real estate. we live in nj, a community property state. if we divorce, will i be entitled to half of our assets. we have no prenup. i am a designer and make considerably less than he does. please advise. thanks.

2006-11-15 02:17:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

simply forget about the past.. how can i stop dweling on the things that have happend and realize all the good that is now here... i am driving myself and my husband crazy... and i dont want to drive him away.. i try to blame it on being pregnant, but i was like this still before i wasnt.. i just cant help but living in my miserable past.. and letting everything compare to it... how can i just stop?

2006-11-15 02:12:35 · 12 answers · asked by red.one9luv 2

Grieving for an unexpected death of husband and father how do we go forward emotionally?

2006-11-15 02:12:12 · 8 answers · asked by Squeege 1

she said she doesnt give information out like that to just anybody. whats up with this woman. she lives with a guy and screws around on him with a biker and another guy

2006-11-15 02:03:55 · 13 answers · asked by cmooredr2 1

Is it half of everything, 30% 40$ ?? If, before a marriage one of the partners signs a letter forfeiting thier rights to claim from their partner can that be enforced?

2006-11-15 01:56:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

When my fiance and I got together 4 years ago sex was great. He couldnt get enough of it and everytime we were together we just knew it was going to happen. It was amazing. Foreplay, Kinky postions..the whole 9 yards. We moved in together about 2 years ago and sex has almost stopped. Im lucky to get it twice a month. It makes me feel unattactive and unloved. But when I bring it up to him he accuses me of basing our relationship on sex. Which im not. He said he only gave it to me so much before to make me happy, why cant he make me happy now? And Im second guessing the man Im going to marry. Sex now is just that. Sex, I mean I do enjoy it, but theres not foreplay, no fun postions, its just "Ok lets do it" and then its done. Is there ANYTHING I can do to change this back to the way it was before? Or and I fighting a losing battle? I love this man to death, I just dont know whats going on..

2006-11-15 01:54:54 · 10 answers · asked by that.one.girl 1

2006-11-15 01:50:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im not yet doing the thing i asked about cheating with my husband and i just want to know if i do caught just like my friend i can still justify what im about to do. But Im starting to have feelings with him. some answered that i just want to have adventure. maybe this last question will lead me to the right thing. I think im falling inlove and im sure he is because his so sweet to me, he knows i love my husband. his trying to prove to me that i dont deserve my husband that i deserve to be with him and he want to leave his family for me..

2006-11-15 01:45:36 · 37 answers · asked by jhennie 1