or would that make me a stalker?! I really liked him and it made me question my current relationship but I satyed with it because I loved me boyfriend very much. That has now ended and I am heart broken, should I look this other guy up to help me get over it? shameless.
2006-11-15 02:24:02 · 10 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to think about your status right now. How do you feel about your ex boyfriend? Why did you leave him? And then ask yourself why exactly it is you want to see the guy you met, and why exactly it is that you like him.
Reflect on this before making a decision. It's never a good idea to start something new while on the "rebound" because you might make wrong decisions and someone could end up getting hurt.
The one thing I've always had problems with while being on the 'rebound' is hurting the 'new guy'. I would talk about my ex and say i was mad at him all the time, but what it meant was I was still thinking about him.
If you find yourself constantly talking about your ex; either negatively or positively, i would definitely steer clear of starting something new until I was confident that I was ready.
Best of luck!
-Mick
2006-11-15 02:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shameless just isn't the word! No you shouldn't look for the other guy just yet, you need time to heal and to get over your boyfriend. Give it a while and then you can if you want still want to look for him. However do you really want that guy he's in the past move forward and fine someone else
2006-11-15 02:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u wont get over it trying to get a rebound guy,cuz deep down u still love ur ex and it takes time to heal mayb having a friend will help.so yeah persue the guy u want but dont rush anything,you'll just end up regreting it if that does not work.goodluck!
2006-11-15 02:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by nate's wife! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, why not. You need a distraction. And it is always good to find someone new to ease the pain of the last breakup.
2006-11-15 02:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, you shouldnt need a man to make you happy it seems that you are very insucure with yourself trying being single its alot of fun.
2006-11-15 02:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by Robin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try and find him. hire a private investigator and sit out side his house once you find him. wait till he gets out of his house and see if he is still good looking than act like you just "bumped" into him.
2006-11-15 02:28:27 · answer #6 · answered by a.gatenby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldn't look him up - can't you live one day without a guy in your life? if it's meant to be, he'll find you - besides how do you know he feels the same way - just let it be.
2006-11-15 02:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever makes you feel better.
2006-11-15 02:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you have to lose??I would try to find him!
2006-11-15 02:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by sugar_n_spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should, If you feel so attracted to him then find him.
2006-11-15 02:29:26 · answer #10 · answered by anna_bananna121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋