from cheating?
2006-11-15 02:38:00 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no tips, except good passionate sex. but once he cheats, hes a cheater for the rest of his life. cant help it, if they want to do, they do
2006-11-15 02:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Mai Tai 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Put little love notes in his coat pocket. Wake HIM up early in the morning before he goes to work and make sweet love to him at least 4 times a week. Never forget to tell him how proud you are of him and all his hard work he does to keep the family going. Tell him "thank you" for the little things he does. Meet him for lunch every now and then and sometimes make those lunches be MORE than just a lunch! Always show him how glad you are to see him when he comes home from a busy day, even when you think you can't. Good Luck!
2006-11-15 11:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by 2Bme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to "keep them from cheating." If he loves you, respects you and wants to spend his life with you, cheating would not be an option for him. Although I do not condone divorce, if he is cheating... I would seriously consider leaving him. You deserve so much better than that. Once a cheater, always a cheater. I don't know if children are involved, but having a father who is fooling around with other women sets a bad example and is simply unfair and wrong. Don't settle for less than you're worth.
Best of luck to you, remember to stay strong.
2006-11-15 10:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry a cheater! If he cheats once, he will be more inclined to cheat again. If you are already married and suspect he's cheating, talk to him about it. Let him know why you're concerned. Keep an open dialouge with your husband, let him know you're paying attention. Assure him that you love and want him, but DO NOT TOLERATE INFIDELITY. Marrirage is a sacred, MONOGOMOUS bond. He took a vow to cherish and honor you, forsaking all others.
2006-11-15 10:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by lucy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's hard as long as you try to keep the spice in the marriage, your house clean and try to be as pleasant looking as you can when he comes home to you, you are doing all you can. Some men just want to be whores. They want to keep proving to themselves that they "still got it". All you can do is inerate that you are the wife you keep your legs together for everyone else and he should keep his thing in his pant sto evryone else. Tell him that you wan tto make sure that he is satisfied and you don't want him going outside your bedroom to get satisfaction. Talk about it if he is feeling neglected and lonely then try to help make him feel like the "king of the castle" as should he do the same for you. When you said your vows you should have meant them. Also another thing you guys can do is make sure that you keep a date night once in a while where you guys can "fall in love" all over again. These are the only things I can tell you. I hope they help as marriage is one sacred vow I will try to always uphold in my home. Good Luck.
2006-11-15 10:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by DispatchGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No such thing as a manual of tips to keep a husband. I would suggest the basic common sense approach though...
Be loving and trustworthy
Share common interests
Fight fairly
Say thank you, I appreciate you.
Compliment each other.
Take care of yourself
Good grooming
2006-11-15 10:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must stay trim, slender and interesting. You must get some type of workout going everyday, try cardio. Your appearance is verrrry important, don't let yourself go. Buy some lingerie, do a lil' striptease, but don't tell him about it, just do it. He will be sooo shocked and he'll be hooked. There is always room for improvement, sooo get to the gym and work up a sweat. Trust me your man will be thankful and so will your hot bod;)
2006-11-15 10:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not married but if they are cheating or you are trying to keep them from doing so. do like my sister does and talk with him about it if that doesn't work then show him how it feels. but if he is cheating and you love him then do something about it
2006-11-15 10:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by vixen63_babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if that man loves you then that should be enough, men are going to do what they want to do so there isn't anything that you can say or do to keep them from cheating, if they have it in their head to do it then that what they are going to do no matter how much you don't want them to. Just be confident in yourself
2006-11-15 12:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make it real plain and real easy for him to understand. Tell him he gets any funny ideas about cheating on you, you will throw him out faster than a piece of rotting meat. Any questions?
2006-11-15 10:42:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋