2006-11-15 03:16:52 · 19 answers · asked by citizen high 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow , folks , we see the romantic side of life !
We can say : It's the same old story , yet !
2006-11-15 03:54:17 · update #1
I've been married for 34 years and overall, it's been great.
I think it's important to know someone before you marry them. I dated my husband for over 4 years before we married so I knew what kind of person he was.
It's important to have a relationship built on love and respect. Communication is a big part of any relationship and I think it helps if you have a good sense of "humor"!
Maintaining a good marriage takes commitment, hard work and you need to be able to "negotiate". The benefits to both partners (and your family) are priceless. Having that "safe place" in the world is the best feeling you can have!
Just my opinion, I'm sure everyone has their own. Good luck.
2006-11-15 03:41:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1yr and a half I'am remarried and this one is much better we still have disagreement but I have learned how to communicate without screaming. He is very quiet and I 'am the opposite he loves that I'am funny and out spoken and loves the Lord. He is a praying person I think that helps us a lot. He's a very laid back and very antsy. We went through some rough patches but everyday is a learning process full of understanding the person, trusting, compromising, listening being quiet, thinking of the good over the bad. Accepting the things you don't understand. Everybody have good and bad days when your spouse have had a crumy day don't make it worst put the bad stuff you have to tellthem on hold it can wait. Be considerated. Goldren rule Do unto other as you would have them do unto you. Not evil for evil God bless you
2006-11-15 11:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by smiley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My marriage was great ! He was a guy hat would pick the stars from the sky for you . very loving and a good soul af a man . Unfortunately i was not so fortunate to keep him any longer . he died 2 days before we where married 2 years . But those years where the best in my life !
2006-11-15 11:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
25 year's . Love every moment April 07 will be 26 years
2006-11-15 11:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by bob r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess, I've been marred for 4.5 years, I've been with my husband for 8.5 years. All is pretty good. Of course, we have some rough spots, but we've worked it out. It takes alot of time, effort, and commitment to make it work. It is definatly not one sided thing. It takes the two of you working together to make it happen.
2006-11-15 11:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by co_r_upt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 1/2 years old. Marriage takes love, respect, trust, sense of humor, alot of work and tolerating(a.k.a. compromise). Wouldn't trade him for the world. :)
2006-11-15 11:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by metallicachic82 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I been married for almost 3 years and I am very happy and home the best for our future
2006-11-15 11:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by kelly r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL @ the way you put it.
Married 18 yrs and all I have to say is Im a lucky woman. Hes my best friend.
2006-11-15 11:18:43 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
we've b been married for 18 years we dated for 7 years before we married . . we're just meant to be together. . for all times good and bad
2006-11-15 11:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by Rainy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been married 23 years...many ups and many downs...but we deeply love each other. I respect him, and he respects me. We have a wonderful family. I could not imagine life without him, hes my best friend
2006-11-15 12:23:00 · answer #10 · answered by no name 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋