Is it wrong (a sin) To have sex with another woman I feel guilty just thinking about it..
2006-11-15 02:31:35 · 9 answers · asked by israel g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She walked away from the marriage, giving you the right to start a new one. So, go date..have fun and enjoy life with your kids.
2006-11-15 02:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you are saying? did you mean your wife left with the kids or without the kids? either way it looks as if she is not coming back so if that's what you want to do. then go for it . know if your a religious person and you feel like this is a sin due to the fact that you are still married then I say wait get your divorce and then do you or a least get the process rolling good luck
2006-11-15 03:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a life man..life goes on, many men too has abandoned families throughout the century.and how many women make it anyways! .so..what would it be different with a man..if u feel that having sex with others is a "SIN" well not ur wife to blame.U ARE with ur fanatic dogmas..then..just become a "handyman" will do too and concentrate in bring up ur kids well from now on..life still go on..although i pity the kids..they don't deserve it.
2006-11-15 02:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by brasil_mulher 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I take it that you and her are not divorced. I would go to the court house or a lawyer and ask them about your situation(abandonment). Maybe there is a way you can get a divorce without her being there. You sound like a great guy and I wish the best to you. Good luck! :)
2006-11-15 02:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by metallicachic82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry to hear that. It must be very difficult to deal with something like that. But I honestly don't think it's up to me to "pass judgement" on someone else's choices in life.
Your wife apparently "chose" the lifestyle she wanted and unfortunately, there isn't a lot you can do about it. You and I may not "agree" with it, but you don't have to "agree" with it to "accept" it and move on with your life.
I think your main concern now should be your children. You need to do "whatever it takes" to make sure your children are happy and well-adjusted. They need to know they are loved, (by both parents). They need to have "stability" in their lives. Do everything in your power to make sure they are not exposed to any "adult issues" you are having with their mother.
I'm sure this isn't easy for you. If you need to seek some "professional" help for your or your children, by all means please do so. I wish you well, good luck.
God bless you.
2006-11-15 02:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by Mugsy's Place 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHat?!! She left you. You are allowed to have a new life (including new woman). Why do you feel guilty? She is the one who abandoned you guys!
2006-11-15 02:37:11 · answer #6 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not in my eyes it isn't. She is gone and the marriage is over. You do know that you can get a divorce or annulment based on abandonment don't you?
Move on with your life!
2006-11-15 03:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She left you and the kids a year ago?? SCREW her,be glad the loser is gone and get on with your life!!!! You deserve some happiness too!
2006-11-15 02:44:35 · answer #8 · answered by sugar_n_spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, forget about the b****, there are plenty of women available and willing. You have nothing to feel guilty about. She has already broken the marriage covenant. i hope you have filed for divorce.
2006-11-15 02:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋