he pretends he dont want me no more but still keeps getting involved in my life in a negative way, we have a kid together and both love him and share him equally, why does my ex use this to get in my face and my life? hes doing my head in! help
2006-11-15 02:37:27 · 18 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your right he is a nob! Kick his ****
2006-11-15 02:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd ask him why he feels the need to get involved in your personal life now that you are no longer together. The fact that you have a child together is irrelevant, unless whatever you are doing affects the safety and development of your child. I'd keep things civil for your childs sake but make it crystal clear to him that your personal life is no longer his business and that should he have an opinion to keep it to himself. I'm guessing you dont interfer with his personal life? If so he has no right to interfer in yours! Good Luck xx
2006-11-15 02:44:49 · answer #2 · answered by KT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all ex's are total knobs ...ive been divorced 6 yrs now and still getting s--t ....they are like little boys who cant get their own way so they throw a paddy if that dont work they throw what they can at you ....
just show to him how you can get on without him ...even if deep down you are hurting !!!
my boss gave me some good advice ....if he txts you giving you s--t like mine did then just answer "ok " or dont rise to him as he then knows he can get your back up ....trouble is he told me this after i had a txt war with him !!!
as for the kids they are the only ones who are getting hurt the most ....just try not to argue etc in front of them and let them know you will always be there for them
good luck girl
2006-11-15 02:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a knob because he's an ex. What did he do to become an ex? You figured out he was a knob. Look into Tim Field's site on bullying, you may be surprized at the things there and may find some solutions. I think it's www.bullyonline.com.
2006-11-15 02:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by frieburger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 10:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you think! If he's annoying you with his intrusive behaviour, you can get an injunction to stop him coming near you - it won't affect the way you share looking after your son because someone else can do the "go-between" bit.
If you're not happy with him using your son as an excuse to interfere, you can also get the terms of your shared parenting changed.
2006-11-15 02:45:07 · answer #6 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems like one of guys that don't want you to have anyone, so he is trying to hurt you mentally and maybe by using your child against you.
If you had a bf, he would try everything for you not to be happy, or maybe he wants to hear you begging for him back.
Although you have a child together, you should try and telling him to butt out of your life and move on.
If this is affecting your child he should take note, if not go to a solicitor.
I hope it works out for you.
2006-11-15 04:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by BigD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL exs are pure nobs sounds like yrs still loves you
2006-11-15 03:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by robertboozychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a nob because he's your ex. If he wasn't a nob, you'd probably still be with him!! Don't let him bother you!! have some fun and find yourself a new hunk!!
2006-11-15 04:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by Oldfruit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does he get involved in your life? Don't tell him anything that is going on in your life and he can't get involved. Say as little to him as possible...say hello when you see him and leave it at that. Create distance so he can see he is NOT affecting you in any way.
2006-11-15 02:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to keep distance. Or ask him straight why he keeps interfering when he's got no business in your life anymore.
2006-11-15 02:41:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋