i'm v disturbed n hurt by my husband's ex-gal frds calling him 2 offer themselves.he gets upset when they called him n he will take it out on me by insulting n degrading me.i dun deserve any of this as i hv been faithful n honest n forgiving all this while 4 wat hv happened.but i'm no saint,i cant go on letting them "torturing" my life.wat can i do?
2006-11-15 04:03:38 · 26 answers · asked by Oscar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should probably change your name, "Oscar", then they (and we) might take you seriously.
2006-11-15 04:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
There are few things that you can do to end the the Calls.
1. Change your Telephone number to Non-published, Private number.
2. You can report the Persons who are making the Calls to your Home. They are considered Harassing Phone Calls. Also, If the calls persist...You can have the Numbers Blocked by the Telephone company. No one should live in fear or in a hostile environment.
One issue here is that there appears to be more than one caller.
If this is a case of Fatal Attraction, then your Husband must defend you until the very end. You are his Partner and deserve to be treated as such.
No Wife should be subjected to any physical or emotion abuse, what so ever.
Confront your Husband with your plans to Block the Numbers or Change the telephone number.
Warn him to never give out that number to his Female friends.
Should that not work, consult an attorney to see what your Legal rights are.
Best of Luck to you.................... Billy
An advocate of Woman's Rights
2006-11-15 04:22:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the calls from your hubby's ex-gfs upset him, then change his mobile number. And if the problems persists after the change of number, you will know that he is pretending to get upset with the calls and insulting and degrading you is only a drama so to convince you that he is mad with the callers when the real is that he is still happy to receive the calls but maybe the calls came in when he is with you by your side. Perhaps, you never know how is he reactions (happy and joy) when the calls came in when he is out or away from you.
2006-11-16 13:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, stable activity on ignoring him, proceed to overlook approximately him. Any communique you initiate off up with him will supply him further wish of attempting to get into touch with him. this type does not take no for an answer so proceed to overlook approximately him. next step is report a restraining order. when you report a restraining order and he violates it (and he will if what you're saying is actual) turn his at the back of in, After being skipped over and probably a visit to the county penal complex, he will truthfully get the trace to leave you a lone, do no longer warn him your self, do only it as planned.
2016-10-15 14:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, your husband should not be taking it out on you and insulting you. That is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard and you should not put up with that. It should be him telling his ex-girlfriends to stop calling and he should be the one reassuring you that they mean nothing to him. He is a jerk for treating you the way he is. If he won't take a stance to stop them from calling then pay the extra money to get your number changed with the phone company. If you continue to get calls after changing your number, then you will know he is the one giving out the number and maybe you should rethink giving him your trust. Sorry to be so blunt but I hate to hear women not sticking up for themselves when they are treated badly by their spouse.
2006-11-15 04:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by edawns 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Been there done that sweetie, he sounds like the man that I had and all the calls coming in and me getting upset about it and then he would take it out on me. I got fed up with it all and left him. You should do the same thing. He is cheating on you and then he is getting mad and taking it out on you to cover up the fact that he is cheating on you. If he gave a flying flip about you at all and loved you, those women would NOT have his number. They have them because HE gave it to them. His anger toward you is just a cover up of him cheating on you is all it is. You need to let him go, you deserve better treatment than that.
2006-11-15 06:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is taking out them calling him on you?
One What a JERK! Two he shouldn't take this out on you and you need to straight up tell him this. Next he DOEST have to take their calls and can tell them to NOT call him. This is his job not yours! Tell him that he has no right to degrade you or insult you because of his ex girlfriends. Sounds like he is feeling guilty.
Stand up for yourself, do not let any man do this to you! There is ALWAYS someone that will treat you better out there!
2006-11-15 04:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by mudd_grip 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ouch, this was painful to comprehend. There's really nothing you can do with regards to the women. That's up to your husband to resolve. If he allows it, that should tell you a lot about his character.
As for the insulting and degrading comments your husband makes towards you, that is your problem to fix. Stand up for yourself and refuse to be treated in such a manner!
2006-11-15 04:06:52 · answer #8 · answered by kja63 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It really sounds like he is upset that you know about the calls, you seem like a good person, change the phone number and if he still gets the calls he must have given the number to them. And you should not let him terrorize you this is his issue not yours.
good luck.
2006-11-15 04:07:12 · answer #9 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If he is insulting and degrading you because of ex's calling, then you need to get out of the marriage. He may begin beating you next.
2006-11-15 04:06:13 · answer #10 · answered by Conscious-X 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
if this is happening to you, I think you should leave your husband no matter how deep is your love for him. Your husband should not forget that you are his wife and insult or degrade you whenever he is upset by his ex gal friends
2006-11-15 12:15:08 · answer #11 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋