Your relationship is changing. Change is sometimes scary. I think you are in for a good change though. Good Luck!
2006-11-15 16:08:12
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answered by serendipity_siren 5
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You have been anticipating it so lone. Let's guess that you have probably been day dreaming what it would be like and all. Well, now that it is here, you don't know what to expect anymore. Will if be like your dream or will it be different? What if you are not ready? or what if things don't go accordingly? Don't worry about it. If he stepped up, he has been thinking about it too.
2006-11-16 00:11:11
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answered by RoxieC 5
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when it comes down to it we are a little scared .with the majority of relationships ending in divorce it can makes us nervous with the whole concept.I know after dating my husband for two years he took me out to look at rings and girl i ran so fast i did not stop on go or collect 200 dollers.why i was scared.things and people change once they become married and that alone is frightning and with time moving on you will also change your perception on thins, now looking back i wonder for now its 10 years later and it is heading for divorce.Talk with him find out what expectations he has for the future from you if you are comfortable with that and find that you love him then let things work them selves out.
2006-11-16 00:13:59
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answered by resigned 5
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maybe you tried to get him to make a commitment to you, and when he makes a sudden decision of doing what you want, you get scared, and all of a sudden you're not ready. You shouldn't have pushed him so hard, when he's ready to make a commitment, he will, by forcing someone to make a commitment won't work, things just have to happen naturally.
2006-11-16 00:09:26
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answered by superboredom 6
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it,s a big step in your life you should be alittle scared. it is what makes you think about big decisions. it makes you make sure it is the right thing to do, NOW IS It? do you love him?
2006-11-16 00:18:13
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answered by letsplaymac 1
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WE ALWAYS FEAR THE UNKNOWN, NEVER TRIED BEFORE SCENARIO. BASIC HUMAN NATURE. WE GET COMFORTABLE IN OUR LITTLE NICHE, NO MATTER HOW UNGODLY, BUT BECAUSE WE CAN SURVIVE, WE STAY THERE. MOVE ON. ESTABLISH THIS MOVE WITH GOD IN MIND, CHRISTIAN WEDDING ETC AND YOU'LL BE SURPRISED AND DELIGHTED HOW GOD WORKS FOR YOU!!!
GOD BLESS, SEND ME AN INVITATION!
2006-11-16 00:09:55
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answered by thewindowman 6
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...maybe coz you are afraid it will end suddenly and you don't wanna wait for another 3 years to find another meaningful relationship.
2006-11-16 00:09:19
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answered by ? 4
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maybe because deep down you feel like it's not really what he wants and that you pressured (i think the term you used was "bothered") him into it?
2006-11-16 00:08:45
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answered by mjboog2 4
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You may be worried about failure. Have faith in yourself and him. You will be fine.
2006-11-16 00:08:47
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answered by Roger89 3
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