I find that most men are physically attracted to more than one woman. Many dont want to admit it openly but would like to take an opportunity to have a relationship with a woman if possible secretly. I am sure this is true of women as well but they will be most reluctant to admit. Are these not reflections of prosmicuity? which is inherent in man as a species? Isnt it better if both men and women can have their own private personal sphere other than what they are committed to in the op-en world?
2006-11-15 22:47:58 · 8 answers · asked by romantic_v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you look at 'Man' as an animal species, that is how the males were created. We have that desire to get with many. But our intelligence develops our morals, so even though we have those desires, men of honor don't pursue them.
2006-11-15 22:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Genetically, man is designed to mate with many, while woman, saddled with the responsibilities of child birth and rearing, looks for a partner who is strong and can provide well for her and her child/ren. A man produces millions of sperm in a single teaspoon of semen, while a woman, in her 35 productive years of 15 to 45, considering a monthly cycle, produces about 300 odd good eggs for fertilisation.
The social structure of modern society is such that it is difficult to follow caveman-like tendencies of mating with many, though promiscuity is on the rise with availability of birth control etc. Sticking to one mate also avoids conflict and corresponds to the biblical commandment of 'do not covet thy neighbour's wife'.
Women have also become more ready to experiment with sexuality as society has become more open and they are financially independent, i.e. don't need men any more to fulfil their basic needs of shelter and food.
However, hypocrisy in a one-on-one committed relationship leads to a lot of heartbreak, something well avoided. Very few couples have managed to keep their 'personal private spheres' of existence in an open relationship either personal or private, and have thrown away what they have.
My recommendation, either be a butterfly , or a lifemate.......not both!
2006-11-16 19:51:47 · answer #2 · answered by Sho Biz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man and women truly fall in love and enter the all consuming world of each other, as long as both needs are continually being met and satisfied why would you cheat? Nothing is better than a loving relationship unless you have problems.
2006-11-16 07:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by firecrotchlindsay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
True, but we are that way in order to find the one true person because y is it that when u fall in love, others seam to dull in significance. Others only seam interesting as friends??
2006-11-16 07:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-11-16 06:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow deep!! but, yes its true!!
2006-11-16 06:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
male is polygamous by nature.women or not is they are not bithces
2006-11-16 06:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by UnderstandingLife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal
2006-11-16 09:15:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋