No he hasnt had an affair! bit confused as their is no way back for us.
2006-11-15 21:54:45 · 31 answers · asked by jules 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
has!!!!!! ok not as
2006-11-15 21:58:07 · update #1
Best i can tell you he still has feelings for you and his heart just can't give up. Just for the record' There's always a way back.It depends on how you feel and if you want it or not.
2006-11-15 22:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is anything like my husband then I am guessing he is possibly a jerk off that deserved to be drowned at birth which would be a good reason for you to say it is over and no way back. If that is the case then he is doing it because he has realized the error of his ways and is trying to sucker you into taking him back. Believe me this little rouge will only last until he gets his sorry behind back into your home.
Personally I do not have enough information to be able to decide why he could have sent the flowers but speaking from my personal experience that was my guess.
2006-11-16 06:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by April C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to show u that even though u are divorcing he will still care about u as a friend (that will not end). If u unable to deal with that, or it confuses u, ask him just to step back for a while in order for u to get use to the Idea.
2006-11-16 06:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is sucking up to u.Hes looking for a way back into your good graces.Just tell him in a polite but firm way that while you appreciate the gesture,your feelings have changed and as soon as he accepts that the better off he will be.
2006-11-16 07:05:36 · answer #4 · answered by bundyal38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just playing with your mind.
He wants to remain in control of you. By sending flowers, he is trying to make you continue to want him.
And it's starting to work. You're spending time trying to decode what the flowers mean, so you're probably still hoping there's a tiny chance that things could work out.
But now you recognize his (probably unconscious) attempt to manipulate you, so stay strong and move on!
2006-11-16 06:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by liz_in_adam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just thought it would be a kind and nice gesture. And as I don't know how long the two of you have been together maybe now that things are coming to an end he was just remembering all the good times and just thought he's buy them for you
2006-11-16 06:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Why do you think he got you flowers. He still has feelings for you.
Except the flowers and say thank you but this does not change anything.
2006-11-16 06:05:42 · answer #7 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt waste time worrying about it if there is no going back now!!!
Men can be fickle at times. A very good male friend of mine cheated on his wife (of MANY years) at EVERY opportunity (over the 'very MANY years), and although I dont think his wife ever found out, she recently decided to leave him saying that she did not love him anymore and he has fallen to pieces, is an absolute wreck and has not stopped begging her to come back - according to him he loved her more than "life itself"....... YEAH RIGHT!!!!!
2006-11-16 06:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by niccilicci 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be many reasons - maybe he realises it was his fault the marriage broke down and this is his way of saying sorry. Maybe he is hoping against hope you could change your mind and go back, or maybe it is just a sweet parting gesture. Only he knows the reason why - you could always ask him!!
2006-11-16 07:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously still has feelings for you and wants to win you over to take him back or keep him. this although pathetic is a sweet gesture and you should consider it. if you hate each other or he ad an affair den slap him and send him packing.
2006-11-16 05:58:03 · answer #10 · answered by DancingGal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋