We've been together for about 9 months now, we've been doing 4play for quite awile now. He's gone down on me, but I've never done it before so I haven't done the same to him. Yesterday, we were just messing around giving hickies to eachother & I started giving him some on his chest then the thought of going lower on him crossed my mind. Honestly, I want to go down on him because it actually turns me on a bit. As I was giving him a hicky I kept tellin myself "Do it!, you know you want to" Lol, but I didn't...I know it's because I'm nervous, because I haven't done it before...I dunno..What I'm asking for is can anyone give me advice on how I can just DO IT already! Like how did you first go down on someone??? Help me out here!
2006-11-15 22:08:19 · 23 answers · asked by Savanna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you know what?......... its all about you,if and when you feel comfortable with it then you'll know when it right for ryou.If he is fine with going down on you,that just shows you that he's ready for whatever crosses your mind.My first time was one i enjoyed with my b\f and honsetly i liked it.
2006-11-15 22:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by paulina83 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
hickies--how juvenile....and disgusting too!!!! Sounds to me like you're very immature and shouldn't be messing in the territories of the SEX games you're playing----
Hopefully your 4playing around is being done with protections----You sure don't want to procreate !!
What is the rush? You really need to take a step back and quit trying to rush things.
2006-11-15 22:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Now i hope i can give you some thing to think about. You haven't been with this guy long. Do you know where he has been and who with? Every one he has had sex with so have you. Hope you understand what i am saying. If you go down on him who has gone down on him before you. Make sure you know before you blow. Give me the thumbs down if you want. But you can never say nobody told you. The possibility of what he could give you is a hole lot worse than a hickey.
2006-11-15 22:30:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Just do it bit by bit. Example, for the first time maybe you could just go down for a bit of a close look. Then a couple of days later you might want to have a bit of a lick. Just step out of your comfort zone a little bit at a time. Also, discuss your thoughts with your boy friend, he sounds like a caring guy
2006-11-15 22:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by sunline 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
LOL that's so funny. I am so nervous about it always, and still am. So I got a subscription to COSMO magazine.. lmao. With my ex-husband I hated doing it, it seemed like he didn't like it much, but with my boyfriend now he seems to really enjoy it and the more I do it the more confident I get. Just do it, hopefully your guy will be understanding about it. Mine doesn't pressure me and it makes it alot easier, though there are days when he just about begs for it and I refuse because that's too much damn pressure for me!! lol
2006-11-16 01:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by p 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you want to know how to do it, ( and are serious ) get the book the ultimate kiss, It gives great instuctions on how and what to do. Jenna Jameson also has a great instructional video as well.
Enthusiasm is the most important part of oral. If you are enjoying what your doing ,your partner will enjoy having it done.
2006-11-15 22:34:59 · answer #6 · answered by expandinghorizons69 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think you are way to young to be doing anything. If you are still giving hickies you must be a teenager.
2006-11-15 22:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by kelsey 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Is there anyone you can ask? It would help if you knew how to do it good. Like he is going to care if you are good or not. What am I thinking. Next time you see him and are alone, push him down and do it.
2006-11-15 22:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by Jon O 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you've never done it before and would like to, but are nervous about it. Ask him to teach you what to do. That way, he's sure to get what he likes while you feel safe and comfortable enough to learn.
2006-11-15 22:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by liz_in_adam 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
There are web sites that tell you how to go down on a man. But do not do it unless you are comfortable too..Just relax and just let things happen.
2006-11-15 22:35:12 · answer #10 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋