I know I am the skum of the earth. But I love the guy. I kept him from my real life and sort of tucked him away when he was n't around. Now, I want him, He offered to leave home and buy a place near me. We made plans. We were both thrilled. then he backed out on me and I was defistated. I knew better. But why why why??
2006-11-15 20:02:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
KHARMA! WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND!
Never ever ever date a married man.... its just wrong.
2006-11-15 20:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
It is nice to love a somebody. But that doesn't mean you can also freely cheating on at the same time. Maturely, you must know that love is pure & coming from deepest of heart. Did you realize from inside your heart that you were cheating with someone's husband? What were you doing was like burning yourself that become hurting when the flame is get bigger n bigger.
If i can give an advise, is you must become a stronger woman, open your eyes, open your ears, and especially your heart. I bet you will get in love wisely with someone on the right way.
So don't defistated anymore. Be a great woman!!
2006-11-16 05:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by Stefen C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure it is some problem with the current wife. I know exactly the heartbreak you are feeling though. I was and guess I am still in a similar situation. The problem with mine is the wife is threatening him with their children who are very young saying she will accuse him of abuse. How do you get away from a psycho wife like that I don't know. Risk losing your children I guess. At any rate what I have done is just tried to throw myself into my career and move on the best I know how. I wish you luck.
2006-11-16 05:11:08 · answer #3 · answered by Tina S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are smart enough to know that you are the skum of the earth but not smart enough to know that guy won't leave his family for you.You are merely just a toy for him,get it?Plus,you deserve it,serve you right,trying to break other family,end up breaking up your own heart!Your existence is meaningless to others,you just live to break other families by letting the man screw you.And you wish your lif to be happily ever after,dream on!
2006-11-16 04:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scum!!! Honey you are worse than scum. The other women on here are right, the guys don't normally leave there wives for the other woman. Mine cheated on me to and he had no plans for leaving me either, he had it way to good to leave me. But I surprised him by leaving him while he was out with his little tramp. He came home to an empty house. So you little ......what ever you want to call your selves......you need to learn to find guys that don't have anybody else. If you don't know if they have someone or not, not that he will tell you this, but you all need to check out the car titles and look in their house, if they will let you.. that is and check out their cell phones, there is all kinds of ways to find out if he has someone out there or not. Don't get me wrong, it is not just the females at fault here, it is the guys fault as well as he had no self control over his self and fell for the tramp.
2006-11-16 04:26:42 · answer #5 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but this question just pisse*s me off. I'm the wife of a man who cheated and do have any idea how it feels? YOUR BOTH SCUM! SORRY!
It doesn't sound like hes so in love with you if he backed out. Married men never leave their comfort zone. Your just going to have to realize you were "something fun".
Then again...maybe you should beg him to be with you...so he can turn around and cheat on you, maybe then you will understand the lives you have ruined. You say your devistated, how the he1l do you think his wife would feel ( if she doesn't already know ).
2006-11-16 04:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by HarleeNicole 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Love is a funny thing isnt' it? I have been cheated on too. However, I'm not going to be bitter about it. You say you fell in love! I know you believe that to be true. But, did you really? My guess is that it was probably just a thrill but only you can't see that just yet. You say you had made plans and all, but trust me, if you had settled down whatever problems he is having with his spouse he will have recreated in your relationship, eventually. And yes, if he cheated on his wife, there's a chance he could have cheated on you in the future too! You are worthy of a good, pure love. This one wasn't it. Take care of yourself. I know you are hurting.
2006-11-16 04:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He made the sensible choice by keeping his family together and you made the stupid choice of getting involved with a married man. However now you should distract yourself and try not to think about him, you were asking for this failure in this relationship from the moment that you were involved with a married man...you should respect other people's marriages because you wouldn't want to be married to a man who is having an affair/cheating on you.
2006-11-16 04:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by DrSH 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WHY? Most of the time men will not leave the marriage, no matter what they tell you. You do know the fact that happiness can not be built on someones UN happiness. If he did leave his marriage to be with you how could ever really trust him not to cheat on you?
2006-11-16 05:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by dettie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Candy,
I'm sory to hear the sad endings of your hopings. It is indeeds a cruel acts from your lover whom you trust he will brings you happiness...
Candy, he isn't serious with you because he will never forsake his wife because of you. If he does have a slightly courage to be with you, he will really carries out his promises and honor it.
Let go him and do not go back to him eventhough he will be punished one day. He doesn't deserve the best from you.
2006-11-16 05:34:52 · answer #10 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married almost seven years now, and this girl, thought the samething, she thought my hubby would leave me, and his daughter for her, she made all theses plans, it feel through, and he told her that he would be over, and never came back to her, she claimed that she was pregnant, and lied for about two months, and then she fessed up that she wasnt pregnant. she wanted to get revenge because he left her. dont mess with married men, because they rarely leave there wife, because you got think of this, if you are messing around with a married men, what makes him think that if you guys were official together, you wouldnt do it behind his back?
2006-11-16 04:07:12 · answer #11 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋