2006-11-15 20:17:01 · 30 answers · asked by krystal a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You shouldn't have been messing around with him in the first place. What do you hope to accomplish now that you told his wife about your affair? Looks like you wanted her to find out. Well I can bet that she knew all along something was up anyway. Just don't expect that he's going to leave her for you now that she knows. If anything, he'll probably get rid of you as soon as he's done explaining the truth to her (if he ever does).
If she's smart, she'll get rid of him too.
2006-11-15 20:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by jdhs 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 16:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing that you do is right from the moment that you became a mistress.
What are you wishing from being a mistress?
Married guy have a bigger penis?That's the reason?
You will always known as b**ch,being a mistress means stealing other woman's husband.
I wish that poor wife will use that letter and sue you for adultery,wonder you still become a mistress when you are behind the bar.That what all the wives in the world wish you were there and always there!
2006-11-15 20:50:23 · answer #3 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're very daring I must say! You're a mistress but you've the boldness to write his wife a letter. Do you want your lover to be in deep trouble or what? Are you trying to stand up for your status? If not, why are you stirring up all these troubles? You've made him and his wife unhappy and I guess that's what you intended right? Why do you need to write her a letter? You already had her husband's love and body? What else are you trying to prove or show? She's totally defeated. You, as a lady, should try to understand her better. Since you've won the battle, why not just let things remain the same? Do you really like to make everyone so unhappy? Does that really satisfy you then? Think for yourself, I think his wife is a poor thing and has to suffer knowing her husband has got a mistress outside. Wldn't things be better for everyone if you haven't do such a silly thing? You can continue your secret affairs with him, while he can fulfil his duties as a so-called loyal hubby. Now I just hope your guy won't be upset and angry with you & won't think of breaking up the relationship with you too. You're indeed making a very impulsive & rash action and jeopardizing your own future as well. But if you really succeed, you guy and his wife will file for a divorce and you can get what you want. However for most of the cases, men will still return to their legal wives coz ultimately they'll realise who are their real wives and have kids to take care of. Well, congratz to you then! Think about it, is that really what you want from him and her??? Don't feel sorry or regret as things already happen and you've succeeded in spoiling their marriage!!!
2006-11-15 20:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dear Krystal,
The moment you sent his wife a letter, I knew you may have made up your mind to let go your lover because you will know that he will be very angry and possibility will leave you for own good. I admire your courage of your own acting.
I totally knew how bitter and sorrow feelings when your man is not 100% belongs to you because I was a mistress before. You may feel that writing to his wife is a revenge to your lover and hoping this will smack his marriage and goes back to you. You are wrong.. This will only make him feel confirmed that he has not make a wrong move by not deserting his wife because of you.
Krystal, you are too rush on your acting. If you do love him with all your heart, you need a lots of patience and gradually it will turns a fruitful relationship. I was a good example and I'm sharing my hubby with the 1st wife who is still keeping in dark of my existence.
Anyway, since you had made up your mind to start all over again, I wish you all the best and erased all your bitter memories with him. This way you will feel better and happy. God bless.
2006-11-15 21:24:58 · answer #5 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Instead of sending a letter on what He was doing ,you should have sent a letter apoligizing about what YOU were doing. If you knew he was married your just as wrong as he is,if you didn't know,when you found out you should've broke it off with him. Adultery not only hurts the wife but also the innocent children that the parents forget having just because they care about their own needs.
2006-11-15 20:42:08 · answer #6 · answered by Mother of 2 girls 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I know that some folks would think that would be pretty tasteless thing to do but, not me, I would want to know what the little scum ball is doing and with who. The wife/girlfriend has the right to know who he is doing it with besides her. I can't say that he was not man enough to let me know because he wasn't a man in the first place for cheating on me. Did you even sign your name to the letter? What was the reason that you sent a letter to her in the first place to let her know that he was cheating on her? I would really like to talk to one of these types of women one of these days to find out why it is that they will date a married man or one that has a girlfriend, knowing he has one in the first place.
Now notice that I have not gotten mad at you, just him for cheating. That is because HE knew better and had no self control, not enough back bone about himself to tell the other woman that he already had someone. But all joking aside, I would like to have my chance at talking to a woman that will go out with a man that is taken. Who knows I might learn what makes a man tick.
2006-11-16 02:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that in the first place you were wrong to get involved with a married man. There are still some single guys out there you just have to look for the one that is for you. Writing his wife a letter was a big no no. you knew that when you got with him he had somebody, and he wasn't going to leave home. my mother to once that the same way you get a man is the same way you will lose him . remember "KARMA" what goes around comes back around. The same thing you are trying to do someone is going to do it to you but worst.
2006-11-15 21:45:49 · answer #8 · answered by gurly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you do it? Have you just done it for revenge because he has dumped you, or do you feel bad because you did his wife wrong? Fair enough that you've done it, I'd just be careful in case the husband finds out that you sent the letter and comes looking for you.
2006-11-15 20:32:36 · answer #9 · answered by Baps . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope....what are you trying to do break up their marriage? all because you feel low because you cheat with married men i mean the damage is already done so why did you do that?? to cause friction did you feel like you were getting the short end of the stick so there for you had to send his wife a letter....i don't think you like yourself very well and you want to cause pain in other ppl's life....he's the one getting the pleasure out of it, not you thats why you sent that letter...what did you think he was going to do? leave his wife for you?? when you seen that wasn't going to happen thats when you decided to write a letter huh? something must have got to you!.because why all of a sudden are you feeling pity... your just as guilty as he is....you need counseling!!! where are your morals?
2006-11-15 20:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋