Marriage & Divorce - 12 November 2006

She lives in so far away with her child. I noticed they both send text messages like for example: "you think i still have sexy voice" "i miss you both" "i miss you and my child", "please move back, come on". Is it normal situation for Americans if they are divorced?. I am confuse because in my culture you are not like that with your ex.

2006-11-12 07:27:04 · 11 answers · asked by Patt 1

my wife never wants sex , she doent do it during the week , sunday is very much taboo and on saturday she just wants to rest

2006-11-12 07:21:44 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2

I feel like my husband and i are not getting along at all there is alot of stress on both of us including moving to a whole new city(ny to houston and a new baby.I feellike everything wrong he does to me is all hitting me now and I am afraid I am falling out of love with him trust me I dont want to leave cause he still has a place in my heart but we seem like we cant stand each other and it just hurts so bad.I feel like he always hiding something from me even if he isnt but he has did some bad things to me like cheat and lie but has made up for it we been together 3 years aand why now I am so tired of him????

2006-11-12 07:19:17 · 3 answers · asked by Lexy320 2

The last name that I go by is not leagal but I've been going by it all my life . So I want an id in that last name but the dps is not allowing me to get it because I dont have the birth certificate in that last name , (that birth certificate is sealed because of an court order). And the birth certificate that I have right now is in a different last name that I've never went by .

2006-11-12 07:18:22 · 3 answers · asked by Unique 1

Me, my husband and our 2 kids live in a tiny 2 bedroom flat! He has loads of friends round this area and i do not know anyone (even though we have lived here for 2 years now!), I want to move back to the estate where i lived for most of my life, my mum lives there, my family lives there and so do most of my friends, It is only about 45 mins walk from where we live now but noone comes to see me apart from my mum as it is still quite a trek and hardly anyone i know drives, My husband does not want to move as he like it where we are as it is close to work and close to his mates, Am i selfish to ask him to move to this area,but like i said to him he can get a bike and go to his mates on that and also ride to his freinds. Its not as easy for me as i have the 2 young kids with me most of the time if i am not working!I am thinking of moving without him! Surely he would follow?Also none of us drive but he is doing his lessons and will soon be doing his test. What do you people think i shold do

2006-11-12 07:16:00 · 12 answers · asked by noone 3

I want to know about my divorce status

2006-11-12 07:11:30 · 5 answers · asked by bizcocho2000_2000 1

i really love her and i can't wait any more to tell her, but im also afrid of what might she say when i tell her she's my friend and i don't want to lose her please help me

2006-11-12 07:08:34 · 13 answers · asked by nigga b 1

And, assuming this is true, is it some kind of Karma.

2006-11-12 06:50:44 · 14 answers · asked by victorschool1 5

2006-11-12 06:48:27 · 20 answers · asked by chalu chora 1

My son father owes back support payments, my child is now twenty five and i am still waiting for balance of payment to be made, however my last appearance to to support agency i learned that, because he has younger children whom he is currently paying support to, my claim has stopped until his obligation to his younger children have be met, i do not understand why i have to wait 10 to 15 years to get my support ordered payment to start up again. Is there any way i can stop this delay? and what happens if he continues to have children? Is there anyway i can press the issues to add on interest due to the delay on his behalf, just as he would have to pay interest, late fees, on other finacial obligations.

2006-11-12 06:46:17 · 7 answers · asked by Reenell W 1

I was out with my cousin on a rare not out about 2 weeks ago and she told me that a month before i got married my hubby slept with someone else at a xmas party last year, I phoned up the girl in question and said that he had just told me and i wanted to know why she had done it as we were supposed to be mates!, after a while she said it was a mistake and they were both very drunk and she didnt really know me that well at the time!, then i dropped myself in it somehow by letting her know who really told me so she then denied it and said they only shared a kiss, when i got home i also asked my hubby and he also said it was just a kiss but then 10 minutes later he got a text from her saying"i told her it was just a kiss, ok". They are now both denying it, but the problem is she works with him so they see alot of each other, he told me that he hasnt seen her since! Also this girl claims to be a lesbian. She knew we had 2 kids together and were just about to get married. I am still hurting!

2006-11-12 06:45:48 · 33 answers · asked by noone 3

i posted a question stating my husband thinks i cheated on him because i didnt tell him about a few phone calls between me and an ex. i couldnt go back to put more info in, but i HAD a few texts and an email from a male who i do not have feelings for never did never will,but because they were males, i was afraid to tell my husband about it. i know i was wrong to lie to him and now he thinks i cheated beacause i lied. i never lied to him before and he knows that, when he hurt me i forgave him and worked on our relationship. i do not want to use that as an excuse to take me back, but i didnt cheat. i love him and want this to work but he will not return my calls. im afraid it really is over but i dont wat it to end because of something he thinks i did. i dont know what to do about this.he really is a great person and i didnt mean to hurt him. i never did before. does he really think i could do that? will he come back?

2006-11-12 06:41:38 · 13 answers · asked by jessie 2

2006-11-12 06:40:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bosses wife is really hot and trying to get laid all the time , she likes me a lot and i know i could bang her , could this be good or bad for my carrier , he is the big boss maybe she would talk to him about a promotion . bad idea ?

2006-11-12 06:38:14 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2

I feel like returning to my ex-husband. He was both verbally and physically abusive with me. We have a daughter who lives wtih him in another state.

I don't know how to break my addiction to him. When I think of restarting my life with someone else, I feel guilty about hurting him. I constantly feel that since Ieft I should put the family back together.

He is now sick with different things (high cholesterol, etc) and I feel that its because I have not been there to take care of him.

Yet, now when I talk to him he says that I am "messed up" and not "marriageable material." I have not grown or developed over the years according to him and am not loyal to the family or house. I have to learn to think according to "we" and not just about "me." I don't know right from wrong and am not smart enough to understand the "right" things to do for a family. I am all about money and me and have emotional problems according to him.

I miss being part of a family though.

2006-11-12 06:35:41 · 16 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

I am very frustrated with my marriage, as I feel that sex has become a duty that I am obligated to perform. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy sex, or at least I used to...but my husband tends to fucus our whole relationship around him being sexually satisfied. If I am not in the mood...everything turns sour. I find myself obligating him just to get him out of a bad mood, or seducing him to ensure that my day will not be difficult. Since this pattern has been going on for years, I feel that the chance of us ever having a good sex life is destroyed. In his eyes, I owe him sex, whenever he needs it, and if I was a good partner I would want it all the time..always be in the mood. There is no passion left for me, as it has become a chore. I have tried talking to him about this, but he doesn't handle conflict well, and nothing ever seems to get resolved...he will just use it against me at a later time and make everything worse. Any ideas on what I should do?

2006-11-12 06:26:25 · 31 answers · asked by catywhumpass 5

my husband watches p.o.r.n. but refuses to admit it. what so i do. he lies to me about it

2006-11-12 06:25:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you could start over knowning what you ve been through
would you have children again?

2006-11-12 06:24:16 · 21 answers · asked by girl24gr 3

I think It would have to be, dumped in a bubbled jacuzzi with 5 gorgeous babes...completly starkers lol..and I donno just being pampered ...what would you enjoy?

2006-11-12 06:23:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2 months ago my wife said she didnt know if she wanted to be with me we fight often i used to be controling and am trying very hard to change ive lost 14 pounds in a week due to stress i love her more then life but she is so cold to me and just keeps saying she doesnt think it will work what do i do please help me

2006-11-12 06:22:46 · 9 answers · asked by travis c 1

Good afternoon. As you know , I'm Sexy Lexy . I'm 17 years old today.
I was just asked by the cutest 17 year old guy who was in my latest question Guy Help!?!?!?! to marry him. Should I? I do love him and he's the guy of my dreams . Help me ! My future depends on YOU!!!!

2006-11-12 06:20:48 · 13 answers · asked by Alexa The Princess 2

I met my wife when she was 14 and i was 16 we have been together since. I am now 23 and she is 20(almost 21) we now have a son which is 3. I just got out of the military(no deployments) we lived far away from famliy though. Now since we got back 5 months ago whe have been arguing. I am admitting I have been controlling and need some work. It is my fault she left I do blame myself. But now how do I get her back. She told me on monday that i had changed everything she asked and that she still wasn't happy. She is now gone and is getting an apartment(less than a week) I can hear the hostility in her voice when i talk to her. What do I do to get her back and make this right.
1. There is absolutely no other guy
2. Married for 3 years w/ one son
3. I know she loves me deep down inside

Is Six months(the lease on the apartment) too long to wait to get her back?

2006-11-12 06:17:54 · 9 answers · asked by Justin N 1

Just a financial idea

2006-11-12 06:07:39 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Imagine every month feeling so angry at everything that your on the edge of rage, you dont want to talk, or do anything and anything that anyone does sets you over the edge....In fact everything your husband says gets you mad and everything he doest say keeps you mad...

What can a man do when everything he does and doesn't do sets you off?

2006-11-12 06:04:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my husband for two years. We don't have any children, and we both have very good stable jobs. I want to have a baby already, it feels like the right time, but he says that we can wait a little longer. I am starting to have doubts about wether he is EVER going to be ready to have kids. I love him probably more than I love myself, but this decision is really messing with my mind.

Any thoughts on how I should handle this situation?

2006-11-12 06:03:09 · 13 answers · asked by 2pretty4u 2

feelings

2006-11-12 06:02:01 · 7 answers · asked by Brittany 2

2006-11-12 05:33:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-12 05:32:35 · 3 answers · asked by hos_1978 1

2006-11-12 05:18:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 25 yr married male and i come to know that my wife is raped by old man,, what i need to do
she confase after i clarfy

2006-11-12 05:16:58 · 13 answers · asked by john d 1