2006-11-12 06:48:27 · 20 answers · asked by chalu chora 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
trim your nose and ear hair, wear a cologne she loves, compliment her more often (even the small things count), plan a romantic dinner.
2006-11-12 06:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by ~jenjen~ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Women LOVE it when men are spontaneous. I think this is especially important among married couples, because you've already "caught" eachother, and now you'll spend the rest of your life keeping the spark alive. Don't stop doing whatever it was you did to earn her love, but also, incorporate new ways of expressing it. Find ways to surprise her; keep her on her toes and not just on holidays or other special days of the year. It's the little things that you do in-between on normal days that matter to us so much because it's like saying, "I'm doing this just because I love you, and I was thinking about you today." On a physical level, it's the little things that matter too. Simply taking a few extra minutes in the morning to look nice for her mean a lot, and goes a long way. She'll love those little things, and it will definitely draw her even closer to you. The truth is, it really doesn't take much, but it means a great deal, because it simply shows that you care. Good luck doll.
2006-11-12 07:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Rizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nice to see that a guy is asking this question (not many care to, that's why they have certain issues with women).
Now, as for your answer: A real woman loves it, when she's approached in a decent respectable manner. You could try some small changes (if you haven't already done so)....Make her coffee from time to time (to jump-start her day).. Run her shower or bath water at the end of the day, (with No expectations to follow afterwards)
Leave her some cute 'love notes' around the house for her to find...(that will make her Smile), Keep Your body nice & fresh at all times (a certain fragrance will drive her wild), lol...A clean breath (no beer smells etc. etc) will go a long way also..But the number one complaint from us (women) is: I Wished he'd be a Better LISTENER!
Not Only Listen....Try Hearing what she trying to convey to you....Mirror back what she says, to Make Sure This is what she's saying.....
Do crazy sweet things, stop buy the market....a small cute bunch of Wild Flowers, or her favorite Wine, Candy, or call her before you leave work, to see if she needs anything on your way home from work?
By no means do this everyday, just when you think she needs her Spirits Lifted a bit, or she's had an exhausting day with the kids, or her job.
Give her a few pecks on her cheek, as you passes by her throughout the day. Thank her from time to time for being there for you/ & or/ the kids.... A woman needs to hear this, IF Not...she feels used, not whole, & Not worth Loving, she feels like an Empty Vessel.....We mutli-task a number of jobs everyday of our lives, & to Know that we are appreciated throughout the year, & (Not just on Mother's Day/Valentines)......we are born to nurture, but we also need to be 'replenished' at some time or another, OK....Good Luck on the Romance..M.M.
2006-11-12 07:15:02 · answer #3 · answered by Martha M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm. . .well, I'm surprised that she isn't attracted to you already. But anyways. . .
Firstly, do you help her out around the house? Do you rub her feet, draw her a bath? Give her a nice back massage? Are you at all romantic?
These little things make me go wild for my hubby. Not that I expect them all the time, of course, but when he does these things, it makes me very appreciative. But, I think my husband is a very attractive man, anyways, so this isn't really an issue in our marriage.
2006-11-12 06:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by Shayna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the beer belly you didn't have before the wedding, wine and dine her as often as you can and afford, be attentive, help out around the house a bit, do the things that she likes to do for a change, do all these things without being her lapdog and be a man.
2006-11-12 06:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by lara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are visual. Women are verbal. Women are turned on by the things a man says to her so whisper sweet nothings in her ear. Tell her wonderful things, describe your feelings to her. Always to be gentle and kind, thoughtful and caring. Tell her that her skin is soft, she smells nice (if she does). Even when you aren't being sexual touch her shoulder, her hand, etc. Touch her in a loving way without being sexual at times. Tell her you care what she thinks about and feels, etc. You'll be in like flint with more loving than you can imagine if you do those things!
2006-11-12 06:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by ruthie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude!!! You need to start working out and wear nice appealing clothes with some sweet smelling collogne. Buy her a boquet of Star Gazers with ferns. They smell up the whole room and are beautiful. One more thing, Stroll up behind her, put your hands around her tummy and kiss the side of her neck all the way up to her ear. If you don't get any luck with that, shoot me. Good luck.
2006-11-12 06:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be kind and courteous to her. Make time for her. Treat her like a lady. Complement her looks. Take care of your body. Stay in shape. Have good hygiene habits... be clean. Let her know that you need her and that your crave her touch and that she is the only one who can put out your fires!
2006-11-12 07:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure she is physically attracted to you, b/c there has to be a level of that to marry... there must be physical as well as an attraction to one's soul. But my advice to you would be to treat her as a queen... treat her like she is the most important thing in your life; more important than sports, TV, games, etc... and let her know this daily. It is putting others first that makes them be more attracted to us. She will feel like she is #1 to you and this in turn w/ make her more attracted to you on many levels. This is how my husband treats me and I am so very very attracted to him on ever level b/c he is so good to me in every way! And of course lastly, you should take good care of her in every way, take good care of the home in every way (help out) and then take good care of yourself (hygiene). HTH & GL :)
2006-11-12 06:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by Francis Jane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1..dont fart in bed/2..dont burp at the table/3tell her nomater what...that lookes great on you dear/4dont ever bring her to hooters for a romantic dinner/5..ask her ...what do you want to do honey/6YES DEAR YOUR ALWAYS RIGHT helps alot/7..no dear let me do the dishes...supper was great/8..cuddle after love making and dont fall asleep/9...ask her...did you loose wait...wow you look great.../get rid of your old underwair they are not supposed to be crotchless..and YOU go get new ones ..stay away from lepard thongs...sorry i couldnt help
2006-11-12 07:01:08 · answer #10 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is ur wife she should already be attracted. just go work out together and keep the body tight. tell her to take some exotic dance classes. get a new hair cut. and u know u have to do the same to stay attracted to her.
2006-11-12 06:56:54 · answer #11 · answered by kimmi 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋