Marriage & Divorce - 12 November 2006

It's like I have no more friends.I just stay home and take care of my boyfriend and my 3 kids and we never go do things anymore.AAhhhhh.Any words of advice?

2006-11-12 13:12:10 · 8 answers · asked by oregoncheeto 3

She is from russia here on work visa,she has to return to russia in 3 months,if i marry her can she stay and does that make her a citizen of the US?

2006-11-12 13:02:53 · 11 answers · asked by ftmyersguy57 1

My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years, but were together for 3 1/2 years before that. We used to be so close- he was not only the love of my life, but my best friend. However, ever since we got married, it seems like he's changed. He treats me more like a servant than a wife. It's always "Do this, get me that." He's completely unromantic as well. I know the giddiness of an early relationship can't last forever, but I feel like he doesn't even see me as a woman anymore. I've tried talking to him about it, but he just gets mad and then shuts me out. It's completely changed how I feel about him. I still love him, but I feel sometimes like I'm not "in love" with him anymore. To make matters worse, lately I've been fantasizing about a guy from my past. I would never cheat on my husband and I don't have a way to contact this guy even if I wanted to, but I feel guilty for even thinking about him. I just want to feel wanted and appreciated again. What should I do?

2006-11-12 12:47:12 · 15 answers · asked by jenl904 1

2006-11-12 12:44:16 · 15 answers · asked by chikensnsausages 3

married men and women look outside the marriage for what they don't have anymore as a couple but they won't leave there spouses because they love them..but not in love with them for the simple reason is that no more affection, no more communication. no love, no sharing in the good things, time is just being taken for granted..so like me i love to be passionate, love to cuddle, love to give . love to have someone that can return that, and thats what i call a relationship and more u can say to each other the better, but u still love ur spouse , not being in love is no affection from one to another, so no there is nothing wrong with a relationship that keeps both happy

2006-11-12 12:38:49 · 16 answers · asked by montana_sun_rise 1

I was dating a guy for 5 years, He recenlty told me he needs time, Though over the past few months he has asked me to marry him 3 times, and then changes his mind, He has since told me that he went out on dates, but yet tells my friends he can't let me go, He knows that i love him , and am finding it hard to move on, Any suggestion to get this man out of my mind and try to move on.

2006-11-12 12:38:01 · 12 answers · asked by Sweetie330 1

I am ready to move on and i want so badly to just find the right guy. or better yet,him find me... a few people tell me to wait several years to even think about moving on... it's been 11 months seperated. 6 months divorced. he has moved on the day he left. why can't i ??? is it wrong for me to want to move on and think about a possible MR. right? if there really is such a thing for me.. or maybe I blew my chance at ever having that. how long should i have to wait and put my feelings on hold????

2006-11-12 12:37:42 · 27 answers · asked by mercy me 4

2006-11-12 12:36:27 · 10 answers · asked by drewbacca 1

Because of this I have neverl really forgiven him. To this day her remains condescending about it all although his has changed his ways. I am no longer in love, dont' trust him, and feel trapped because we have kids. I want to leave but friends advise me to stay eventhough I know what I want.

2006-11-12 12:36:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married 4 1/2 years, dated for 5. Both of us 35. No children.

2006-11-12 12:33:49 · 33 answers · asked by miss_fred 3

she is so supportive and does everything for me i am so lucky to have her. does anyone else have this lucuary.

2006-11-12 12:32:51 · 10 answers · asked by pickledaddy 3

a marriage is a piece of paper that says you love honor, etc. so if you do not have of paper does this mean you do not love honor,etc? if you have been thru a bad marriage maybe you are afraid to try again. does anyone understand out there? or is marriage neccessary?

2006-11-12 12:32:43 · 14 answers · asked by pam e 1

Your wife/girlfriend or your mother?
Don't worry - I won't tell ;)

Who do you THINK SHOULD be more important and why?

2006-11-12 12:29:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-12 12:28:38 · 10 answers · asked by josie 2

I am twenty-one and my spouse is eleven years older than me.
I was raised by my grandmother who didn't pay attention or respect her husband (he was very very happy when he decided to leave.) I never had a real example of a husband and wife relationship growing up. This is my very first serious relationship and it’s like he's teaching me how to be a fiancée. It gets really annoying for both of us, and I tend to make the mistakes that are the most severe to him even after he tells me not to make them. I don't know how to get it right and I'm so confused. he's giving me all these chances, but each time I make another mistake. Like today I woke up late even after the other day he told me he was taking me out. I love him very much and don't understand why I can't succeed in making him happy. Am I a bad, unappreciative person? Or should I have gotten in a lot of practice growing up? Please tell me the truth, or a resolution, I feel so bad for him

2006-11-12 12:28:07 · 11 answers · asked by Muse 4

my question is since he doesn't really help me with bills i end up paying most of them, do you think it would be possible for me to get assistance like families first or food stamps in my situation?

2006-11-12 12:25:50 · 21 answers · asked by Jennifer M 1

2006-11-12 12:22:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is VERY into online computer games. Most days when he gets home from work, I see him for about 15 mintues before he goes in and starts playing; I usually don't see him again until dinner, and it usually takes me 3 or 4 calls before he comes to eat. After dinner, he's back on the games, sometimes until 2 or 3 am. His job allows him to work only 4 days a week, so on the weekends (and monday), he will often play his game ALL NIGHT (or at least until 3 or 4 in the morning) and then sleep until 10 or 11 (sometimes as late as noon or 1). Now, I don't dislike the games, I even play with him sometimes, though my back and my eyes get tired after an hour or 2 of playing. This is starting to have a bad effect on our relationship and our sex life because I don't want to have sex with him when he gives me only 2 or 3 hours attention ONLY when he wants sex that night. I feel very resentful & I HAVE talked to him about it... How do I make him understand how much this hurts me?

2006-11-12 12:21:38 · 16 answers · asked by missapparition 4

Is there such a thing as a good marriage...meaning no lying, in infidelity, etc,etc

2006-11-12 12:16:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I was wondering what chance do I have of gaining full custody of my 8yr old son? My situtation is my sons father has been harrassing me since I was pregnant. I gave him joint custody. He never took advantage of the time he had, and he never paid support cause he either wasnt working or he was hurt on the job. Now here is my problem in May he called dcfs on me 3times in 4 months an then put an order of protection me. It was dropped 3 days later and I didnt have a lawyer. Then at the end of his summer vacation he refuse to give him back. Then I get paper that said he filed for full or temp custody and me supervised visits I didnt have time to retain a lawyer but I showed up and the judge gave temp custody to him pending final hearing. The judge said we need to set a time that is longer than 30mins His grounds for seeking custody is I have moved 4times in 8yrs and I have had 5b/f and my son who is a.d.d failed 1st gr. Does he have a leg to stand on? I do have a lawyer.

2006-11-12 12:11:15 · 5 answers · asked by h0w U liK3 m3 n0w 2

to marry you and give you lots of money so you can live off of him and not ever have to do any work???

2006-11-12 12:09:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

the cheater wife or cheater husband ,

2006-11-12 12:00:11 · 26 answers · asked by bb 1

hi my husband always abused me today i told him to take a vacation from office so that we can go out but he said he doesnt want to spend his days with me he doesnt want to leave office. he is free in the office having no work but he wants to go to the office everyday. i have a 3 yrs old baby.

2006-11-12 11:59:10 · 8 answers · asked by carrie 1

I was just wondering if any other women out there have this problem? I have caught my husband on several occasions "releasing" himself. He knows that if he wants some, all he has to do is just come to me. What makes me really upset, is that when we have a night to ourselves, he'd rather do "that'' than make love to his wife(me). I have told him that this hurts my feelings, and that it makes me feel unattractive on several occasions. But again, it continues. Am I the only one?

2006-11-12 11:58:49 · 20 answers · asked by citygirl22_1 3

ever seen the maury show were they do those DNA tests to find out if the guy is the father or not. I saw this woman on there who had just tested her 14th man and she still didnt know who the father was!!! Are they acting or do these women really sleep with that many guys??

2006-11-12 11:55:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Any help would be great.

2006-11-12 11:54:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-12 11:53:20 · 10 answers · asked by harly_kris 1

impotent and has put us in financial trouble. Hes always spacing off doesnt answer you sometimes when spoken to. its like hes in his own world. help what do you think is wrong he doesnt even look at me when im attractive dressed up nothing at all. love life consist of maybe 3 times a year.

2006-11-12 11:51:25 · 9 answers · asked by tiger 4

i am married ,love my wife, but need more {sex}

2006-11-12 11:51:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met and fell in love with the girl of my dreams 7 years ago. we got married 3 years ago. We moved away and everything was fine. Once we came back to our families and firends she has been a totally different person. I have been a bad person to her too. She left about 4 days ago and I need to know what to do... can i get her back? She got an apartment and is moving in this week. What can I do? We sat down a couple weeks ago and she said I was being controlling and agnry all the time. Now the other day she sat down and told me that I was back to normal. she said i did everything right and that she doesnt feel what she felt before this all happened. She says she is not in Love with me anymore.

i'm 23 and she is 20 turning 21 in march.
we have a 3 year old son.
I can garuntee there isnt another guy.
How do I prove to her that I can change????? I know she loves me still I think i have hurt her so much that all she is seeing right now....

2006-11-12 11:39:59 · 34 answers · asked by Justin N 1