impotent and has put us in financial trouble. Hes always spacing off doesnt answer you sometimes when spoken to. its like hes in his own world. help what do you think is wrong he doesnt even look at me when im attractive dressed up nothing at all. love life consist of maybe 3 times a year.
2006-11-12 11:51:25 · 9 answers · asked by tiger 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like he has checked out for some reason. There is help for impotency....no excuse for that anymore.....I think you need to force him to talk to you (or try anyway) If you cant communicate....this slow death will continue and all will be lost. Is he depressed?...I dont know what to say....sounds difficult......
2006-11-12 14:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Lrn'dTheHardWay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe he may be a little stress out. i only been married six years but i been through that about a year ago. What i did was A; Be a supportive wife at all times. B try to spice up the love life, Make love any and everywhere in the house at any time. If you are cooking muffins bend over and let him in. Things like that
2006-11-12 11:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by Missy_Eye's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes a bit depressed. Maybe he feels ashamed about putting you in financial trouble. Or hes just a big jerk. I guess its hard to get to the bottom of this if you cant talk to each other. Maybe a trial separation to give him time to think about what to do and whats important. Just give him a big hug and tell him that you love him. Always makes me feel better when im stressing knowing that i have support and love.
2006-11-12 11:58:26 · answer #3 · answered by Kylie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that, threw away the T shirt and the husband. Your husband is depressed and has some issues, it has little to do with his work more to do with the impotence and financial issues. He needs professional help. You will need to go with him. Mine refused to get it and I had to make the decision to go or stay. I chose to go because I couldnt live my life that way.
2006-11-12 11:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by fancyname 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tiger I have been married 16 years in the same situation and to be honest with you don't plan to spend the rest of my life like this. Where is the love? Why do they act and treat us like this, because we let them. I have been told if I would leave him he would act different but I have 2 kids and am afraid. BUT I don't want them to grow up thinking this is okay to treat a woman like this...... I feel for you.
2006-11-12 11:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the 2 of you need to try some couples therapy to put a little spice back in your life, as well as possible depression problems..........hope this advice helps
2006-11-12 11:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be helpful for him to see a doctor. A physical checkup would be helpful as well as to have him checked for depression. Third shift can also really stress a person and yes, it can strain a marriage.
2006-11-12 13:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by GBG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET PROFESSIONAL HELP. He is depressed...BIG TIME...and you BOTH need to get to the bottom of it. Seriously. Who on earth wants to live like that...he probably needs this push from you. You need to do this for HIM as well as YOURSELF.
2006-11-12 12:07:46 · answer #8 · answered by ladydrea2918 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say goodbye, don't you deserve better?
2006-11-12 11:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by Patricia S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋