hi my husband always abused me today i told him to take a vacation from office so that we can go out but he said he doesnt want to spend his days with me he doesnt want to leave office. he is free in the office having no work but he wants to go to the office everyday. i have a 3 yrs old baby.
2006-11-12 11:59:10 · 8 answers · asked by carrie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
His refusing to take a vacation is not abuse, its selfish, but its not abuse.
Visit a womens shelter if you want to see and hear about abuse.
2006-11-12 12:02:18 · answer #1 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is truly abusing you get the hell out of there immediatly! Take your child and go to your local women's shelter, they can help you. They can set you up with some counseling,help you with an apartment and maybe even a job. If this man is in fact hurting you and/or your child you need to know that this situation rarely gets better but almost always gets worse. Leave before it is to late! If he simply doesn't want to spend time with you, I would hardly classify that as abuse. If it is simply a matter of not wanting to be with you any longer try to find out why and if the marriage is worth saving or if it is best to go your seperate ways. Perhaps marriage counseling is the answer. Best of luck to you and your litle one!
2006-11-12 20:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by burnettebreeze98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need a life get a daycare and find you a hobby your husband just not ready for the responsibility and you are going to get hurt in the end the way i took this is that what the hell i want to come home to you and the baby when i can be at work doing nothing find your self hes only is thinking of hisself not you and baby get a life and get ready to move on DONT END UP WITH ANOTHER CHILD IT WILL ONLY MAKE YOU FEEL WORSE THAN YOU ARE NOW IS THE TTIME TO FIND YOU HE NOT IT
2006-11-12 20:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by Judy D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this bothers you so much get a job and find daycare for the kid
please stop your whining I haven't taken a vacation since 1999
and work to pay bills and to have some spending money this ain't abuse normal life.
2006-11-12 20:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the azzhole Carrie ,simple as that even being a guy myself hon theres no reason for any gut to lay his hands on a woman or child in a violent manor hon good luck to ya,,,,,,,,,,,
2006-11-12 20:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a divorce lawyer.
2006-11-12 20:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by Bubuchachum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's time for a divorce
2006-11-12 20:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him
2006-11-12 20:10:45 · answer #8 · answered by Patt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋