Marriage & Divorce - 12 November 2006

My daughter is getting ready to turn 12 and i have been told that she can choose at that age whom she wants to stay with permently. Right know we have joint custody and he has her one week and I have her one week. Help me!

2006-11-12 03:08:31 · 7 answers · asked by ejoblevins 1

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2006-11-12 03:03:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my fiance, we even have our second child on the way now. For the past year or so my sexual desire for him goes down more and more. I still find him attractive. He is a good honest family man, and I love him for that, he just doesn't please me in the bedroom... I have tried telling him exactly what he can do to turn me on, but he'll do it like once, if even that, and go back to his selfish lovemaking. we don't french kiss/make out. He never touches me, except "down there" when he wants to get it on. I know this would be a topic better discussed with him and not strangers, but I have tried so many times and he just wont make the effort. It's not because I am pregnant, either, because it was like this long before then. I just wish there was a way to get him to please me, and want to please him. Can you get that flame back once it has gone out? I am only 22 years old. I should have many years of happy lovemaking ahead of me!

2006-11-12 03:03:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every comment to marriage questions on here = divorce.

1. Not happy in relationship > divorce
2. Tired of your husband not lifting the toilet seat > divorce him
3. Wife has bad morning breathe > divorce her

Every solution people give here is divorce, not even thinking about how bad that affects the kids too. Then people wonder why the divorce rate is so high?

2006-11-12 02:58:48 · 21 answers · asked by xoxo 4

I am in the middle of a divorce and our preliminary hearing is on Dec 1st until then my husband has supervised visits in my home with our 2 month old son. He has only visited 3 times since my sons birth but when he dose visit I am so scared he will try to take our son, or hurt me or my family...(my mother and father supervise the visits). My husband has a history with drug and alchol abuse, he is also weel trained in martal arts and has been physically abusive to me, and emotionaly abusive. When I know he is visiting I am overwhelmed with a sence of fear, cause i never know what kind of shape he will arrive in..(high or drunk). Does anyone know how I can handle this? I have numerouse police reports and he has been in jail....i hope the judge will continue supervised visits....any advice? My son was not planned....so please do not make me feel worse by commenting on my skills at picking men I am working on it!!

2006-11-12 02:56:58 · 8 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2

for the last 2 years my husband and I only have sex maybe once or twice a month. We are in our late 20's so I know he can get it up and medically, we have no problems. He watches porn more and more to the point where I realize that porn has taken my place. I asked him many times what the problem was, and finally yesterday he told me that we have "done everything" I'm willing to do in the bed, and the only thing left is to have another woman in our bedroom. I have said no way, so I guess he has given up on our sex life. So basiclly I am old news and having sex with me is the same ol same ol. I am open to anything and everything as long as it is just the two of us. But that is not good enough for him because we have already done all that. I feel like giving up.

2006-11-12 02:56:47 · 18 answers · asked by mrsleslie_lady 3

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2006-11-12 02:53:35 · 5 answers · asked by Draco 1

He feels compelled to gift us something. Is that normal for a child to involve themselves into an anniversary?

I told him it's not nessasary and that it's more of a private celebration for me and my husband. Do you think that was accurate to tell him?

2006-11-12 02:50:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband works graveyard shifts, and it works very well since we all plan for him to sleep at least until 2. saturday morning before he went to sleep for the day i asked him if he could come hear our 5 year old daughter give a talk in church on sunday. He said he'd have to think about it because he wanted to get up early saturday to watch the football game. Which he did. So when our daughter asked him today if he was coming he said no, so she started to cry and he said, "fine I guess I don't need sleep. wake me up in time" and then he went to bed and slammed the door. I am so furious that he would choose a football game over his daughter that I don't even want him to come now. Should I just let him sleep and hopefully I'll have calmed down by the time he wakes up?

2006-11-12 02:46:23 · 13 answers · asked by akeyata 1

the divorce paper are just now down but my ex still call every day sometimes six time in one day all hours of the night am trying to be nice to my ex but it seen as if it is working out wrong my ex is now asking the kids about who i have coming around whats the thinking on this

2006-11-12 02:42:39 · 7 answers · asked by lines 1

What can be the problem? Been checked out by the doctor and he says there is nothing wrong with my Husband. He is 60.

2006-11-12 02:30:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-12 02:24:19 · 10 answers · asked by S K 7

why do we have to suffer in love and feel fear even when we have a person next to us?

2006-11-12 02:16:56 · 12 answers · asked by :(_I,suffer 1

Can anyone please tell as to how much is the waiting period for divorce in India? We have been married for two years, and have been living separately for about three months. When is the earliest the divorce can be filed? How much time in takes for the divorce in India.Thanks very much for your replies.

2006-11-12 02:16:54 · 10 answers · asked by TPR_bgl 1

my boyfriend of 11 yrs has a 11yr old son who is very disrespectful toward my daughter and i. he is also mean and out of control. he has adhd, however i know that most of these episodes are not the result of this disorder. i have been around for 11 yrs you just know after that amount of time. its obvious that he is trying very very hard to split us up. i know i should not let this split us up, but i am having a hard time staying strong all of the time. and i am so set in my feelings toward his son, i find it hard to change. my boyfriend disciplines him in very little extent and is not consisitent at all. and what goes on at his mothers house god only knows. anyway to get to point i am considering leaving the relationship but we also have a 6 yr old together and i do not want to break her heart. any advice?

2006-11-12 02:15:25 · 8 answers · asked by pam e 1

2006-11-12 02:07:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Renting. My husband and I have been renting an apartment for 3 years now. We are both working full-time adults and I ready for a change. 3 years ago the agreement was to get our credit straight and buy a home within a year and half. Well we are still here and looks like we will be in this apartment in 2007. I have had my credit straight and paying bills on time for 2.5 years. My husband started paying off his bills this year. I applaud him for paying his debt but everytime I mention anything about a buying a home, he says o.k. maybe the spring, then he changes and say maybe the summer then he changes again and say maybe next winter. I don't want to nag him but I am so tired of living in this apartment. I became so frustrated until I even thought about applying for a mortgage on my own but I know if his income is added if we apply together, the more money we will be approved for plus it's not fair to him if I do that. Any good advice is appreciate

2006-11-12 02:04:46 · 9 answers · asked by Shay 4

It amazes me how many no longer wish to fight to save a family structure or take the kids into account. I guess it is todays easy divorces and talk shows that do it.. We are at a 70% divorce rate all, it has to stop. Make sure of who you marry, and fight to keep it. I am not saying stay in a abusive situation, but, It is time to stop the divorce mentality and start bringing back the strong family lives.

How many agree with me? and what are your ages? I am wondering just how many think it is ok and not bad to divorce someone over something petty? And last, Other than CHEATING, INCERATING, or ABUSE, Is their any other reason that is really good enough to Divorce?

2006-11-12 02:04:18 · 13 answers · asked by Common Sense 5

Hubby is no longer interested -- it's been 5 years. Have been flirting with coworker, and last Friday -- well, ya know. It was the best EVER! I miss it so much! Shoud I feel guilty? Is it ever OK?

2006-11-12 01:58:35 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

She puts him down and treats him like he is second class. She has done this with every guy I have ever gotten serious about since I was sixteen. I am thirty years old with a six year old boy she acts like I cant raise my child she changes his cloths when he goes somewhere with her and says its because what I had on him was too old for him to wear if he is going with her I changed my phone number so she would leave me alone and she still shows up at my house. Ive told her if she wont respect my husband I don't want her around but she wont leave us alone.

2006-11-12 01:56:28 · 19 answers · asked by Stacie P 1

There is this ring that I always wanted as my engagement ring, but how do I let my bf know to buy this ring before he pops the question and shows up with another ring?

I am only gonna have one enagement ring in my life so I really hope I can get to choose the one I want...

2006-11-12 01:53:52 · 9 answers · asked by angela 2

2006-11-12 01:49:12 · 15 answers · asked by b. spears 1

WE HAVE TWO KIDS AND I DON'T WANT TO LIVE WITH IT .HE RECENTLY GOT IN AN ALTERCATION WITH THE COPS BECAUSE HE WAS DRUNK . HE GOES TO COURT SOON ,AND HE HAS NOT DRANK IN 7 MONTHS BUT HE SAID HE WOULD START DRINKING AGAIN AFTER COURT AND I TOLD HIM I WOULD LEAVE HIM .......SHOULD I?HE DOESN'T WANT TO QUIT DRINK EVEN TO KEEP HIS FAMILY AND HE SAYS THIS TIME WOULD BE DIFFERENT

2006-11-12 01:46:05 · 13 answers · asked by susanfiscus6 2

My friend who was in a violent relationship has gone back with her violent partner after me spending ages helping her get rid of him.
Have i done right by stopping all contact with her?
I don't want anything to with her now.

2006-11-12 01:44:13 · 23 answers · asked by its me 1

How 2 approach my hubbys mistress

2006-11-12 01:40:42 · 5 answers · asked by michele p 1

i've been married for almost a year and we have a baby, alot of times i dont have time for sex or am to tiared, so my husband jacks it, is it normal for a man to every ime he gets horney to do that, every time i mean it if i dont want it he does it, i think its nasty as much as he does it?

2006-11-12 01:37:44 · 12 answers · asked by babylove 1

has been announced today called"the plumber"

2 people stay in all day and no foowker comes.

2006-11-12 01:23:44 · 11 answers · asked by robertboozychic 4

Im almost 9 months pregnant and very depresed, my husband keeps fighting because I forget to do things in the house and he pays all the bills, I suffer from a disorder that when I get really sad or mad I faint, It happened this morning and he thinks Its my fault, he doest care if I cry because he thinks it wont hurt the baby. He doesnt hit me but his words hurt more, he calls me names and tells me Im ugly and fat and not a woman and that I ruined his life. I dont know what to do anymore I cry everyday sometimes he makes me whish i was dead, i dont have any friends to talk to and I feel so lonely.I found him on a chat room online talking to girls, The next day he acts like nothing happened and expects me to be happy without even apologizing to me. Other times he is good and makes me happy but this hurts so much because I dont forget things, He says I have mental problems and im retared, he says it so much Im staring to believe him

2006-11-12 01:09:19 · 45 answers · asked by ariannasthephan 1

2006-11-12 01:06:45 · 11 answers · asked by GratefulFlower03 1

This is on behalf of a dear freind coz obviously i'm not a woman , this is her talking .I am a 56 yr old woman who was married but now divorced for 4 yrs and still cohabitating with ex , we had not had sex for 10 yrs and i started a relationship with his best freind , when the relationship began he asked me to marry him and now after 3 yrs every time i mention marriage he draws away and says , when i am free ,( meaning me ) coz i still live with my ex , what should i do ?

2006-11-12 01:06:44 · 9 answers · asked by nicemanvery 7