why do we have to suffer in love and feel fear even when we have a person next to us?
2006-11-12 02:16:56 · 12 answers · asked by :(_I,suffer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unfortunately, the people you love can hurt you the most...
2006-11-12 02:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I never feel fear around my husband. If I did I would not stay with him so if you are in fear when you are with your lover, get out now. Even though emotions may go up and down I never suffer in love either. So I cannot answer why you are suffering in love. Something seems to be very wrong if you are experiencing these emotions
2006-11-12 02:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by Eileen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has nothing to do with fear or suffering, when you experience the latter rest assured that it's not love you have been feeling but the illusion of love
2006-11-12 02:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by Caro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lovers are destined to suffer.....You see to enjoy the Beautiful Rose one has to run his hands on the Thorny stem of the plant.
Its KARMA......When You suffer and work hard and harder...You reach your goal.
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2006-11-12 02:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by hari k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity.
2006-11-12 02:22:20 · answer #5 · answered by fiona h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not secure of the relationship you are having... specially when you are married to each other...Talk it over. Have open communication but you don't expect much from your relationship to avoid frustration...Anticipate both consequence so you are prepared whatever the outcome maybe.
2006-11-12 02:32:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps in your past someone hurt u, and u haven't gotten over that, sometimes things in our past haunt us, perhaps u have a low self worh, and think the worst. usually it has alot to do with our own negative thinking, and emotions. we think things are going too good for us, and we expect the worse to happen.
2006-11-12 09:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because sometimes when we are very happy, we are waiting for that shoe to drop. If things are really good, you wonder why and how it cant possibly be like this forever. Its pessimism.
2006-11-12 02:20:19 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when you break up with someone your body goes through a 'love-chemical' withdrawal.
2006-11-12 02:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by tashatactics 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont suffer...thats not love
2006-11-12 03:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by liyah's mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋