Marriage & Divorce - 12 November 2006

what should I get my hubby for our 5yr?He is not a soft romantic guy,so a trip to the the place where we met will not do.please help

2006-11-12 09:21:45 · 4 answers · asked by miraclev2001 2

It seems like we are falling apart! I love him so much! We are just so stressed, he works various hours as a mover, some weeks 60, some 20. I work as an administrative assistant,and I go to school. We have 2 dogs and 2 cats. And there is always so much to do, and we don't have time or energy at the end of the day to spend together! And when he gets a day off or something, it seems he just wants to go hang out with his friends, and then I get up set and nag, how can I make things better, how can i want him to want to be here more, and spend more quality time w. me? I don't want to lose him, i love him, and want to be w/ him forever, we have been together for almost 2 years now. Plus we don't always have much money.

2006-11-12 09:13:10 · 5 answers · asked by jacquelineleeca 2

My long term girlfriend broke up with me. She started seeing someone right away. I know that this did not start before we broke up. All of my friends say that it's a rebound. Should I take the fact that she got with someone else immediately as a sort of compliment? Does it say that she is having a hard time with this?

2006-11-12 09:12:45 · 11 answers · asked by forgot my real name 1

she has constited of her 2 kids??

2006-11-12 09:08:18 · 21 answers · asked by fefe 4

I know the statistic that "people who live together before marriage, are double as likely to get divorced once they're married". WHY is that though??

2006-11-12 09:05:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was woundering if a women with children is somehow less dateable than that of someone with no kids. If so or if not I would like to here your point of view on it.

2006-11-12 09:03:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-12 08:56:34 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

Did you stay? Can the relationship still be good after? Do you regret what you did?

2006-11-12 08:45:12 · 17 answers · asked by nc_hpoa 2

When i met my husband he was interesting and lively. Now that we are married, i feel so settled. He goes to bed at 9:30 every night, on weekends he always wants to be home early. he does not have many interests, he does not like to read, or dance. I love to read, and dance. We have nothing to talk about. I on the other hand am an extremely adventurous go getter. i like to be up late, socializing, have interesting conversation. I just can't get it through to him that i am really depressed over this. And maybe i am being one sided, i am not sure. He does wake up early in the morning for work, and is usually tired at the end of the week. Our income can be limited and we do live in an expensive metropolis. He is really a very loving guy, and does a lot for me. He thinks i am focusing to much on one thing, and not on all the positive qualities he does have. Any advice?

2006-11-12 08:37:57 · 19 answers · asked by nycchic 2

2006-11-12 08:37:18 · 11 answers · asked by alb 1

My ex-wife is falsly accusing me of using drugs and I ethically don't feel I should have to take a test just because she says I use drugs in a child support case.

2006-11-12 08:36:28 · 13 answers · asked by JBUD 1

2006-11-12 08:34:30 · 4 answers · asked by hrmom02 2

When my wife and I lived in matrimonial bliss she would often complain that I would sit (cocooned on my armchair) rather than sit in a more intimate way ,alongside her on the sofa.
Amongst other things, this was cited as a cause in our divorce.
Just as a matterof interest, how many of you,happily married men prefer your own comfy armchair

2006-11-12 08:33:26 · 27 answers · asked by mickeok 1

So women do you like giving or receiving? Men same question,
please people humour me i lead a boring dull sexless life i need some excitment from somewhere!!

2006-11-12 08:32:24 · 4 answers · asked by jules 4

2006-11-12 08:27:42 · 25 answers · asked by MICKEY M 3

2006-11-12 08:27:20 · 9 answers · asked by Johnboy 3

I just told my husband that we should divorce. He knows how hurt I have been for years by both families and him. He also knows that I have gone from being funny and sweet to angry and bitter. Divorce scares me as I won't have family to rely on. Friends are few but distance-wise very far away..

Husband has agreed to give me time till I get back on my feet with getting certified in some classes and getting a better job. But emotioanally speaking.. how hard is it for a woman?
Men's responses are welcome,too.

2006-11-12 08:17:52 · 14 answers · asked by Centered 4

If you do maintain the relationship -- how do you handle it internally?

2006-11-12 08:13:04 · 9 answers · asked by lee irish 1

We were together over ten years ago and there has been nobody since. Why can't I move on? Do I need therapy?

2006-11-12 08:08:00 · 24 answers · asked by john_l_k 1

A friend of mine (male) has had an affair with an old girlfriend and now his wife and kids have found out. The thing is my daughter talks to his son on MSN all the time and he keeps asking her for advice and information on the situtuation. I don't want her to be piggy in the middle but the son confides in her and wants her help. Does she say that she doesn't want to be involved, or what? Help!

2006-11-12 08:03:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-12 08:01:18 · 12 answers · asked by dixie m 1

2006-11-12 08:00:41 · 7 answers · asked by CustomBentley 2

I need a good gift for our second anniversary... and why would it be a good gift? What is the second anniversary present... 50 years is diamond i think

2006-11-12 07:55:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel as if my fiancees estranged wife is abusing her power with the court system to get her way all the time. In the state of PA, she has the right to do anything to him she wants. Which includes throwing him in jail, or raise child support (which he already pays) whenever he, nonintentionally, makes her mad. If I have proof she is abusing the system, is there anything I can do?

2006-11-12 07:54:11 · 7 answers · asked by jaina64 2

My husband and I have been divorced for a little over a year now, but he stills comes to my place and wants sex with me, I recently (last Friday)found out that he is seeing a married women, and he keeps telling me not to say anything that he was here or anything, and that he will call me, and i'm not to call or write or nothing to him. He says he loves me yet but i'm really starting to wonder. Recently I started seeing someone, and I don't want to see him anymore,I just want to be friends and thats it. How do I go about telling him that i'm not waiting around for him anymore. He can have his married girlfriend I don't care, but I dont want trouble when he see's me with my new boyfriend. Does anyone have any advice for me?

2006-11-12 07:53:47 · 34 answers · asked by Julie A 1

How would you feel if your husband/wife cheated on you. Not only it being secrect, but they cheated on you right in your face. What do you call husband/wife that cheats on their partner, and how do you say it in spanish

2006-11-12 07:40:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife moved out telling me it was only for a short time, so we could work on some of our issues. when she left everything was good and she gave me no reasons why we wouldn't be back together. she didn't want a divorce, we were to see each other 3 to 4 times a week, she was to spend every friday night with me, we were to talk and work on things. but over the last 5 weeks nothing has hapened, i push and push to try to get her to talk to me and she pushes away, she never has any answeres for me about US and where were going. she's always busy or tired. what should i do? i dont want this to go into a divorce. but with her lack of actions makes me think shes not as dedicated to this marriage as i am. and just so you know our seperation has nothing to do with cheating or abuse just we both got busy and neglected each other and grew apart. am i being impatient wanting direction and answeres so soon? females advice and perspective truly wanted. i dont want to give up!

2006-11-12 07:38:50 · 11 answers · asked by idoj 2

My wife let some guy moved in and now i can't even get to see my children and then she has the nerve to ask me lets be friends for the kids sake and how we all should hang out together i just don't no how to handle this after nine years of marriage. And yes i still love her and want to be with her, as stupid as is sounds

2006-11-12 07:37:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

How would I be able to obtain a free or very low cost divorce? Also how quickly would the process take?

2006-11-12 07:37:22 · 4 answers · asked by jaina64 2

i have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years now,we have 2 children and he has been physically, mentally and emotionally abusive since i was pregnant with our first son 5 yrs ago. ive had black eyes a broken nose and countless bruises. i finally got the nerve to leave after our last altercation and its been 3 days since i have been home. ive spoken to him a few times and he swears its gonna be different this time. ive heard that a thousand times and dont have much faith in it, but he has agreed to get counseling if i get it set up for him. but will counseling really help a man that is this far gone?he has the potential to be a good man he just has serious issues with his anger. i just need some advice please...

2006-11-12 07:32:44 · 22 answers · asked by Pamela 1