It seems like we are falling apart! I love him so much! We are just so stressed, he works various hours as a mover, some weeks 60, some 20. I work as an administrative assistant,and I go to school. We have 2 dogs and 2 cats. And there is always so much to do, and we don't have time or energy at the end of the day to spend together! And when he gets a day off or something, it seems he just wants to go hang out with his friends, and then I get up set and nag, how can I make things better, how can i want him to want to be here more, and spend more quality time w. me? I don't want to lose him, i love him, and want to be w/ him forever, we have been together for almost 2 years now. Plus we don't always have much money.
2006-11-12 09:13:10 · 5 answers · asked by jacquelineleeca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know this will sound cliche, but you have to make time for one another. Find a common interest and start doing it together! If you nag he's just going to want to go with his friends more. No body likes to have someone being needy and nagging, it pushes them away. You both are tired after work? Get some exercise, golf together, plan tennis together, take a salsa class together, anything to get your blood moving and doing it as a couple. Exercise will energize you and whatever you choose will be fun because you are together. Maybe make a time to walk the dogs once a week, you can catch up. You'll be outside in the fresh air moving, energizing. Or play pool, anything but sitting in the house.
2006-11-12 09:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by crkristy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are reacting to life instead of planning how to better live it. Since the schedules vary you need to look at activities in advance and plan how to use time when it is available. Set yourself up for activities as time becomes available for them. It is not necessary to spend money all the time. Remember the best time is the time the two of you exchange special feelings. You need to inspire Him to look forward to time with you as well as those times he can hang out with friends. The first priority for both of you should be each other. Others are secondary. Whatever help you build your relationship in the beginning should be planned to keep things going well.
2006-11-12 09:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to make a relationship better. And you have to take time out to go out on dates with one another ocassionally.
As for making him want you more: put on the war paint (make-up, a nice dress), start working out at a gym, grow your own interests--show him you are an independent, attractive and interesting woman. Just give him a 10 second hug day or a compliment.
Men need to do similiar things, IMO.
2006-11-12 09:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I Had a Dream
Have you ever looked at someone?
Then dreamed, of how it would be.
To live and share their love and memories,
forever as a couple and as a family.
But yet, these people we come across,
haven’t a clue, that your dream was knocking at their door.
They go on about their daily lives,
never knowing that your dream was so much more.
It’s been said, you can fall in love at first sight,
and I guess I have to agree.
Because first time that I saw you, and dreamed.
my heart, belonged to only thee.
So if I had a dream, that I was able to give,
I would give it to you, just so you knew
What it’s really like, to see you in my dreams,
and feel the beauty of our love, when l dream of me and you.
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-11-12 09:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I couldn't have said it any better then CRKristy.
2006-11-12 09:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋