My wife let some guy moved in and now i can't even get to see my children and then she has the nerve to ask me lets be friends for the kids sake and how we all should hang out together i just don't no how to handle this after nine years of marriage. And yes i still love her and want to be with her, as stupid as is sounds
2006-11-12 07:37:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
for the benefit of the kids go see them if she is trying to be reasonable but it isnt reasonable to expect you to chum up and play friends with her and her new partner,,she may want this to happen but situations like this take time and honesty for them to work,,,why she would think you want to see her with another man when you still care for her is anyones idea so it is likely best you make your excuses and just see the children.they are the important people here and as long as you get to spend time with them she cant ask any more of you.give it time,,be yourself and you never know,,things may just work out for the better.
2006-11-12 07:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have kids in common but you don't own this woman. Never did. Maybe that is part of the reason you are no longer with her or she with you. You should get a lawer and ask for visitation rights for your kids. You can't control who replaces you in her bed. Move on. It's obvious it is over. Be a man about it.
2006-11-12 16:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like she doesnt' want to be with you anymore. So i would move on but for the kids sake go and get a visitation order so that she can't stop you from seeing your kids.
2006-11-12 15:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by christina c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are separated or divorced right ? I hope so. Seems like your ex moved on with her life, maybe you should do the same. Agree on some visitation rights for the kids and try to move on. Best of luck .
2006-11-12 15:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is your pride man . She doesn't want you anymore . Get on with your life . Make yourself happy . Just worry about having a relationship with your kids and forget her . Stay gone and move on its over .Thats the truth , sorry if you didn't wanna hear it .
2006-11-12 15:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you don't have a restrining order tell her you want to see your kids once in a while
you can also ask her to let you take the kids to your place for the weekend to spend some time with them
2006-11-12 15:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could that just happen? You are her life partner - sit her down and talk to her about it...is she sleeping with him? who is this guy? Come on and man up and take care of your family!
2006-11-12 15:40:41 · answer #7 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋