Marriage & Divorce - 12 November 2006

My wife-to-be and me are facing some probs. She betrayed me 3 times and i forgive her. Though she nv physically hold any guys but she did met one of e guy b4. Recently, she flared at me for noting and initiated a breakup. Den she go into IRC n find new guys tellin them she is single for several months. Can I noe wad to do to save tis r/s? I really love her alot. What can I do to improve? What can I do to make a girl feel better? I really am desperate for an answer. Please help me if you can, anyone. Thanks everybody

2006-11-12 20:34:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

All was amicably well then after I returned from a trip, I got cold shoulder treatment from my mom-in-law & sis-in-law, I can't remember doing them wrong.

2006-11-12 19:44:18 · 11 answers · asked by Chill 1

Why do the couple quarrel though they love each other very much

2006-11-12 19:16:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-12 19:11:26 · 7 answers · asked by mangy20 1

Now that I look back on my relation with this person, it was pure hell, the emotional torture was not healthy for either of us. When you love a person, you try to do everything to make it work especially when you have a baby involved. I thought that I could take this person out of this world of strippers and give her everything, gifts, money, love, but in the end it just did not work out. I think a big problem was, there was no real trust between us, at first yes, but when you see certain people calling her phone and then after a while she places her phone on silent, for me this was just one of the problems i had to face. You see she had numerous clients and when she stopped working I had made it clear that all the **** stays in the club, do not bring it into our relationship. I have to trust my heart and gut instinct on this one and the attitude of my girlfriend towards the end was terrible, everything was my fault she says!!! Should I fight for this relationship or let her Go?

2006-11-12 18:54:51 · 12 answers · asked by Mo 1

3 1/2 years ago i was with a man, who was married, they had an open relationship. I got pregnant. I now have a 2 year old daughter by him. He has only seen her a few times and we used to talk regular. He went oversees for 18 months and saw the baby both times he was home on leave. He has been home for almost a year now and has not yet asked to see our daughter. I was talking with his wife and found out he asked her for a divorce, I have not talked to him in quite awhile and he does not respond to my calls, emails or anything else. We have always said we were friends,and always would be at one point, he had said he fell in love with our daughter and myself but it was not really love , but why all the sudden stop the communication and not want to see his daughter? Im confused and hurt and lost. Im hurting for him for what he is going through and i have tried to tell him that, but i dont think he wants to hear it. he also just left to day for 5 weeks of training......thanks for any advice

2006-11-12 18:25:06 · 15 answers · asked by idontknowwhoiam 1

I noticed that when my husband would get to a public place he would go to the bathroom first. Sometimes when we go to the bookstore, which he loves, he would be there for twenty minutes. I feel something is wrong. Am I being paranoid?

2006-11-12 18:24:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok,im 24 my husband is 41 and extremely wealthy,We've been married 3 years,but i can't stop cheating on him ive cheated on him 11 times in the past 3 years...he's becoming suspicious and im afraid if i tell him the truth he'll hurt me or take away the generous income im used to,I need his money to pay for our kids and my monthy expenses ( getting my nails done,my hair done,clothes)so divorce is out of the question... What can i say to him to ease his mind about his suspicions so he thinks im not cheating? what are some good excuses to use when ive been out all night and smell like liqour and male perfume? PLZ HELP? and is there a way to hide text messages from my sex buddies with out making it look like i have a lock on my cell phone?

2006-11-12 18:23:39 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my wife have been fighting due to money and drinking. She has been putting her hands on me and I feel I am at fault for me beating her at times. If I am arrested again I will goto prison for a long time so punching her back is out of the question. I dont know what to do to protect myself but calling 911. If she doesnt leave any bruises on me how can I have her arrested?

2006-11-12 18:23:20 · 19 answers · asked by Christopher 1

someone told me most interracial couples , in particular white/black are involved in the swinging life style. And they almost have open relationship...Is that true ?
please forward your honest answers specially if you are in such kind of relationship.

2006-11-12 18:17:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-12 18:02:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my wife very much and our 3 kids but I attracted an Std and have not gone to the doctor yet and have had sex with my wife. I am scared and dont want to tell her.. Should i goto the doctor and just put penecillin in her drink for a week. Can i be arrested for this? Where at this point could I place the blame on her?

2006-11-12 18:01:16 · 25 answers · asked by Christopher 1

how often in a week do you call your wife?

2006-11-12 17:55:04 · 4 answers · asked by budi 2

annoying mother in law

2006-11-12 17:48:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My second life started a few months ago when my marriage was more or less over i have became a home nun!!! i have the celibacy pin pointed but not sure about everything else can you help me?

2006-11-12 17:39:02 · 12 answers · asked by jules 4

2006-11-12 17:33:34 · 24 answers · asked by Boniface C 1

I want to know what do you think about married men and women spending time on the net chatting ?do you think they have problem in their marriage lives ,such as being unhappy or being not satisfied or they do this only to have fun?

2006-11-12 17:25:31 · 12 answers · asked by Creative 2

2006-11-12 17:23:59 · 31 answers · asked by Hunnybunny00 2

whos thinks he is in love with you but you have never met him?? He has recently gotten back from Iraq and now sounds suicidal because you dont care to talk anymore..How can someone feel this intense after such a short time and we have never met....

2006-11-12 17:22:29 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3

Heres the info:
Had 1 night stand, last sept, girl rings me yeaterday & tells me she has my daughter who is 4 mths old. Tells me she can't do it on her own and needs me to help. No we didn't use protection & it was only 3 times in 1 night. She said we can have dna if I want. I only met her once & can't even remember what she looks like. She emailed me pics of baby & she looks like me. I don't want 2 upset her & ask for the test as she is really depressed. I didn't even think she'd remember my name. She says she doesn't just want money, she wants me 2 be part of their lives. I now have a g/f & don't know how 2 tell her about this. I wanted 2 have a relationship with this girl who has my kid but she made the choice not to. I just have this feeling that this girl is not lying 2 me. What should I do? I really want 2 help her out with the baby, she said she has noone 2 support her. She lives far away & wants me 2 come & see her & "our" baby. I am so confused right now, I don't no what 2 do

2006-11-12 17:19:44 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I fell in love with a guy (ok, we'll call him Guy just for ease) many years ago. Time and circumstance separated us. Now all these years later we have found each other (through the internet of course). We still love each other. We are both married. I have separated from my husband (not exactly related but not exactly not related, and yes we have filed for divorce). Guy tells me he wants to leave his wife, he wants to be with me, yadda, yadda, yadda. Am I being a total fool here? I know he loves me. I truly love him more than I ever really knew. But am I just wasting my time and energy?

2006-11-12 17:14:20 · 21 answers · asked by lizzie 1

2006-11-12 17:03:21 · 9 answers · asked by Blah Blah 1

My wife was dating a black guy before she met me.
For some reason - I could not get the idea of "him"...and my with with a black guy - out of my mind.
For awhile, I got her to talk about what it was like for her - how the guy looked - his size...etc. I know he was well-endowed...I had constant dreams about her hooking up with him again - just so I could see what it looked like!
She decided she did not want to talk about him or his cock to me anymore - SO...I was left thinking about things on my own.
In the years we taked about him - and talked about his size - i realized i wanted to see a black cock "live". And my wife made it clear she would never do that.
After looking at every Yahoo picture and video of well hung blacks guys - I finally decided - and met a guy on my own - just to get the obession out of my mind.
SO...I met a black guy - gave him oral sex - and am now ashamed i did that!
I am near homo-phobic...but it was something i HAD to do.
How can i get over this

2006-11-12 17:02:23 · 10 answers · asked by James M 1

I am married with 2 children. I met my wife about 10 years ago and loved her very much. We got married about 2ys later. Everything went fine and I was ok with my life. Until a year and half ago when I met a woman through work. This woman changed my life upsidedown. She is very different. I feel very happy when I see her. I forget everything around me when I am with her. I am sure that I love her. I tried to stop my feelings for her many many times but I coudnt. I took long vaccations, changed phone numbers , faked arrgumrnts with her and stopped seeing her for long durations but I was never able to forget her. Then I realized that there is just no way to deny that I fell in love. I still love my wife too. I dont want to hurt her feelings. And I dont want to destroy my family. The problem is that woman didnt want to have a relation with me as long as I am married. I am in severe pain when I am seeing her go away to someone else. And I just can't leave my wife. Why cant I just have both

2006-11-12 17:00:53 · 13 answers · asked by tom c 1

My wife and I are seperated and she will not let me see my son and won't return calls she changed her telephone # I only have her work # i call they say they give her the message but i have not seen my son for 6 months and i am due to Deploy to Iraq on Dec. 1st what are my legal rights in this matter???

2006-11-12 16:51:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Many people are telling me I should of given him a 2nd chance. We were married for 10 years and dated 7 years before getting married. No children with this marriage. He was a perfect husband except for the one time affair which happen while he was away on business for 2 weeks. I would of never known about it if he did not tell me. He was very sorry and concern when he told me. But I made him move out and filed for a divorce because I felt if he cheated one time what would stop him to do it again. What do you think I should of done?

2006-11-12 16:46:42 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I m in love with woman who is 38 n having a kid and i m just 23 i m in madly in love with her and she also loves me alot ... she is in uk (indian ) and i m in india (delhi) .She came to india to meet me we had best of time together and now we both cant live without each other .we both have acceoted each other husband wife as she doesnt love her hubby and he also doesnt . She wants to *** to me but bcoz of my financial problem to marry her as i juststarted my carrier its not easy for me to be with her also i dont want to uk unless i have sum other support other then her it can be risk to my life and financially also .So suggest me what shold i do ?

2006-11-12 16:46:42 · 8 answers · asked by chilledbeer 1

I want to see if any of your answers match up to what I'm thinking. Thanks.

2006-11-12 16:42:18 · 21 answers · asked by Tgirl 3

If the father is behind on 2000 dollars in child support and has a arrangement with the court to pay 50 a month and he has been keeping his arrangement for a year or more with the court and making his child support payments on time, can the court still punish him for not picking his kids up every other weekend like the court ordered. Because he can not get along with the mother.

2006-11-12 16:40:07 · 10 answers · asked by drenessa2104 2

can you still do things like...hang out w/ your friends whenever....show up at their place whenever...sleepover at their place whenever....stuff like that

2006-11-12 16:36:09 · 16 answers · asked by Ry126 3