Me and my wife have been fighting due to money and drinking. She has been putting her hands on me and I feel I am at fault for me beating her at times. If I am arrested again I will goto prison for a long time so punching her back is out of the question. I dont know what to do to protect myself but calling 911. If she doesnt leave any bruises on me how can I have her arrested?
2006-11-12 18:23:20 · 19 answers · asked by Christopher 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Obviously you have been and are a menace in any case.....just go straight to jail and turn yourself in for all the future stuff you will do as you simply and obviously are looking for an out from the person you are and will always be unless you get your **** together
2006-11-12 19:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is OK to call the police! However I highly recommend that you don't due to your prior arrest. It's obvious your walking on a thin line in the courts eyes. 237.5 PC is a 50,000 fine in CA. That is an expensive lesson to be learned not to mention your subjecting to prison time too! My best advise if church or other counseling is not helping! The truth be told! You must end your relation I know that hurts! However your hurting her, the kids and you in the long run, When will it end? It ends when you can face the truth no more physical violence on both parts that comes from ending your relationship..
Good luck
Bail Agent,
2006-11-12 19:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by FLEXizme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you both seem to be so violent with one another, how about taking the first step and leaving. You can live in freedom outside. Or you can be a prisoner on the inside. Your decision. But things have gotten way out of control between the two of you. So forget about hitting her, both of you should never lay a hand on one another. The boundary is crossed and right now there is so much animosity between you two that space apart is the only answer. This way you can get your head together and your life. If you both want to work on things, do it with a professional but apart for the time being. Things are getting to dangerous. And you don't want to spend the holidays in prison. So leave for awhile till things can be worked out civilly.
2006-11-12 18:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you can still call the police and say that she is hitting you. police dont tolerate abusiveness whether youre male or female. as long as you dont put your hands on her, you should be fine.
the police officer may have one of you 2 volunteer to leave for a couple of days, maybe even for the night... and i think depending who owns the place or is the primary rent payer, should not have to leave.
the time that you guys have apart should give you some time to re-think whether or not youwant this relationship anymore.
if not, file for divorce and keep her away from you with a retraining order and that way you will not get into any trouble that may possibly put you inot jail.
good luck.
2006-11-12 18:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by bjperez07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a perfect example of an unhealthy, abusive relationship. Yes, call the cops on her. Then call the cops on yourself. You both need to seriously re-evaluate your priorities, because putting your hands on another person is completely unacceptable.
2006-11-12 18:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by Pearl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you wanna beat her, put on a fighting game like tekken and beat the crap out of her for free hahahaha
2006-11-12 19:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by thugster17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's okay to call the police. But why don't you get out of that situation.. Either get counseling or at least separate.
2006-11-12 19:03:19 · answer #7 · answered by jthessen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that they two of you just need to be away from each other. Surely you must see that this relationship is not healthy for either you. You shouldn’t be hitting her and she shouldn’t be hitting you, I think that you both need to go to anger classes and think of some other ways of getting rid of this range, before either of you go too far
2006-11-12 20:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never, every, hit a woman. Just leave when things get out of control.
2006-11-13 00:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If either of you hit eachother, you have rights to call the cops, and obviously separate yourself.
2006-11-12 18:25:19 · answer #10 · answered by Fuzz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋