I love my wife very much and our 3 kids but I attracted an Std and have not gone to the doctor yet and have had sex with my wife. I am scared and dont want to tell her.. Should i goto the doctor and just put penecillin in her drink for a week. Can i be arrested for this? Where at this point could I place the blame on her?
2006-11-12 18:01:16 · 25 answers · asked by Christopher 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HELLO Ok how much worse can you make this for your wife! First you cheated on her with some nasty skank that gave you an STD then passed it on to your wife. Then you want to drug her without her knowledge. What the hell are you thinking man! Then you want to blame her for your F*&k up! You should be arrested and hauled off to prison to become someone's Bi*&h!
2006-11-12 18:07:00 · answer #1 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you place the blame on her and she hasn't cheated she'll know for sure that you are a cheat as well as a liar. I would arrange for a nice evening alone and tell her that you have something very serious to tell her. Tell her the truth and both of you go to the doctor together and get some marriage counseling. She needs to be seen right away because a lot of STD's can cause PID in females and make them extremely ill and/or sterile. If she ends up going to her doctor before you tell her and he diagnoses her with a STD she will probably react a lot worse then if you tell her yourself. It is illegal in America to give any prescription medicine to another person. It is also dangerous. What would happen if she were allergic to whatever you gave her? An allergic reaction can be fatal. I wish you luck and you need to tell her STAT!
2006-11-12 18:11:37 · answer #2 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just put something in your wifes drink.
Personally, not to be mean...but if you cheated and gave her something...be a man and tell her the truth. If you don't tell her, depending on what the STD is...she could have long term problems from it. Place the blame on her? It sounds like you don't even care for her, so why are you married then?
Like I said, be a man and tell her the truth!!
2006-11-12 18:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by HarleeNicole 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that giving her an STD is wrong, cheating is wrong, and then posting it on here is wrong. You need to go to the doctor, there are stds out there that can cause serious problems if left untreated. Take chlamydia for example, if left untreated it can cause a female to be sterile, and problems for the man. IF you cheated on your wife, then you need to tell her ASAP. You have got to find out what it is so that you can both be treated. I can't believe you would post something like that on here.
2006-11-12 18:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by wifemanagermom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its SCUMBAGS like you that give men a bad name !! And to try to blame iin the future ?? what a coward !! If she is lucky maybe your whang will rot and fall off B 4 U can infect her !!! Go 2 a doctor and get treated B 4 U touch her, and go confess 2 her while U still have some spine left !! If you can, U can still be a MAN and make things RIGHT !!!
2006-11-12 18:10:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't put penicillin in her drink. LMAO! But if you don't tell her HER doctor will when she comes down with the symptoms. Since you had sex with someone who had the disease to begin with there is no way you can pin the blame on your wife. YOU were the one who committed adultery not her. However she CAN (and hopefully she will) sue YOU for endangering her health after the divorce is final.
2006-11-12 18:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, Point blank, you F***** UP! U have to tell her the truth cause if not Having an STD can seriously harm her if left untreated. You owe her atleast that much. Be willing to deal with the consequences, unfortunetly you didnt care enough while sleeping with someone else. ANd dont put the blame on her, its your F*** Up!
2006-11-12 18:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by nadia 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Man...I wouldn't want to be you for 5 trillion dollars. Man up and pick your time and tell her...AFTER you see a doctor. Take your medicine (no pun intended) like a man and beg her to give you another chance and prove yourself to her. It won't be easy and will not happen overnight so be prepared to sleep in the doghouse for a long time. Do NOT put anything in her drink. You screwed the pooch pal, just own up and be a man about it. Gad...I wish you both luck.
2006-11-12 18:05:01 · answer #8 · answered by Rich B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, please go straight to the doctor to find out what type of STD did you contracted. Then please tell your wife about it & get her to go for a check too... STDs if left untreated, can be very damaging to a women's system as the system is all in the inside so they cam't really see the infection spreading nor the extent of the damage/infection. For godness sake, if you really love your wife, you'd tell her.
2006-11-12 18:22:50 · answer #9 · answered by Rin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth she deserves to know that she may have contracted a std from her husband you should have bben told her and you need to be at the doctors office mister are you still having sex with your wife no you cannot get arrested but your wife should kick your sorry *** out i would
2006-11-12 18:05:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋