I m in love with woman who is 38 n having a kid and i m just 23 i m in madly in love with her and she also loves me alot ... she is in uk (indian ) and i m in india (delhi) .She came to india to meet me we had best of time together and now we both cant live without each other .we both have acceoted each other husband wife as she doesnt love her hubby and he also doesnt . She wants to *** to me but bcoz of my financial problem to marry her as i juststarted my carrier its not easy for me to be with her also i dont want to uk unless i have sum other support other then her it can be risk to my life and financially also .So suggest me what shold i do ?
2006-11-12 16:46:42 · 8 answers · asked by chilledbeer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry.....BUT she is married...she is way older than you....she puts the importance of money over relationships..you don't live in the same country and she obviously is still having relations with her husband..IE: she is pregnant...it's easy to think you love someone that you really don't know...I thought the Indian culture was a little more reserved...this woman cheats on her husband...with a person young enough to be her child...move on and find someone your own age with some morals.
2006-11-12 16:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by .*^+Holly+^*. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You pretty much should be settting down but with a 38, I dunno, any way, it really does not matter as long as there is love.
If this lady is going to divorce her husband that sounds fine, I am not sure about the indian laws on divorce, it would be a good thing to chck it out. Secondly you are a young man of 23, you need to be sure that you are ready for waht you are getikng yourself to, and not just some infatuation.
Finally, if the husband gets to now what is going, and indian man, it's going to be hell.
If I were you, I would say, Ooops! Bad choices, I need to grow up first, take care of my life and then think of extra responsibilities. that's it.
2006-11-13 00:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes involved and you are TOO young. Ask almost any married man and he will tell you it is better to wait until you are more settled emotionally as well as financially. I'm a married man and I am telling you.
2006-11-13 01:06:09 · answer #3 · answered by matt813 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chilledbe
sounds like an AlliBaba story of Aladin and Jasmine....If you can't get the financial status to live in th UK, then she will will have to come to you and accept the conditions that are offered. Other that that,, it will remain a "fairytail"..
2006-11-13 00:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jim M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what r u crazy dont do that. first of all she 38 and your 23 think about thing in lets say20 yrs from now. she'll bout 60 yrs old. you'll be taking care of your grandma. think about. (never get married till your the man you r suppose to be)
2006-11-13 00:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait and see what happen.Let time give you the best answer.If you are 23,easily you will find a woman without compromises,and younger or the same age like you.Wait.
2006-11-13 01:01:38 · answer #6 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait and see if she leaves her husband. Could you really trust her if you end up with her? She may do the same to you further down the track.
2006-11-13 00:53:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make your paragraph short and sweet because I had to read over that so many times. I dont understand
2006-11-13 00:51:51 · answer #8 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋