2006-11-12 19:11:26 · 7 answers · asked by mangy20 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe you haven't tryed hard enough.
2006-11-12 19:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ever heard the term ''It wasn't meant to be?'' I'M assuming your meaning your senific other? You can't change anyone on who they are nor there personality, You have the ''choice'' to accept them just the way they are! You don't have the right to make the choice for them! How would you like to change who you are just to please the other? If you two cant come to compromising?
Truth be told your are settling for something that your not truly happy with! It took me 5 yrs of suffering to realize that i could not change her ways! It hurt like hell! yet time does heal the wounds
I divorce her and that was the best choice for me and my son!
Good luck
2006-11-13 03:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by FLEXizme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well people have to realize that they aren't in control of the world. you are in control of your life but situations usually consists of a couple people at least and it's impossible to control others lives. but you can manipulate them. well it works for me. just being honest. the secret is...
dont use your physical energy to change things you have to use your internal energy. your personality, ingenuity, creativity and ambition. be stubborn but not aggressive stubborn. passive stubborn. example- your mom wants you to cut your hair, don't. she'll yell and bicker and tell you to cut it. don't. don't argue back, don't plead your case just let them get whatever is in their system out and then do whatever the hell you want. don't use physical energy. remember internal energy.
2006-11-13 03:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by zerohour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its time to realize that you should move on and stop trying
2006-11-13 03:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the situation and how you are trying.
communication is the key................
Only if all parties involved are willing...
best wishes
2006-11-13 03:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes they do, sometimes they dont, if you dont like the sutuation get out of it, so that you wont be in it. depending on your sitation!
2006-11-13 03:23:26 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not meant to be...God's will.
2006-11-13 03:16:16 · answer #7 · answered by ManOfTheHour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋