I want to know what do you think about married men and women spending time on the net chatting ?do you think they have problem in their marriage lives ,such as being unhappy or being not satisfied or they do this only to have fun?
2006-11-12 17:25:31 · 12 answers · asked by Creative 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think it is flirting with disaster, unless it is a site dealing with health issues and such. Sin is always fun at first. Then it gets you.
2006-11-12 17:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking a question that is being hotly debated in the counseling psychology circles these days. But, the general concensus seems to be leaning toward "it's not good".
"Fun" is a loaded word. There might be some internet addiction or obsessive compulsive behaviors in the mix. There might be marriage problems. The thrill of anonimity could be part of the equation. There might be a desire to experience some adventure, etc.
Internet communication is a whole new phenomenon that needs to be studied for a longer period of time than it has been in existence. However, it just doesn't seem emotionally healthy to be staying up all night, sneaking around, making phone calls, and even meeting total strangers, by virtue of the Internet.
2006-11-13 02:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it depends on the person and the type of chat that they are participating in. For example, if your on the net in a question and answer forum for the simple reason to give an answer that might help someone - I don't see any harm in it. On the other hand if your on the net trying to get with other men/women for other ulterior motives that will/would hinder your relationship with your mate/spouse-- Then that is a problem. You have to be honest with your intentions.
2006-11-13 01:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with married people chatting online. I know married couples who belong to "groups" who chat together and many chat groups actually have "get togethers" or "Meet and greets" and become friends. Being married doesn't mean the couple HAS to spend every waking moment of their marriage attached at the hip.
2006-11-13 01:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is unhealthy for married people to think they need to be everything to each other. This is a very modern idea that is way too big of a burden.
For thousands of years men and women were part of a community. Most of their lives happened outside of the home, and separately.
So I think chatting is a modern way of trying to be part of a community and being social.
2006-11-13 01:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Creative, Would have to have more information on the marry person. But more likely they are doing it fun.
Clowmy
2006-11-13 01:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is amiss, if one prefers spending time with others, rather than mate. Wasnt there a time when being together was fun???
2006-11-13 01:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how often they do it. If someone is spending more time talking online then they do with their significant other then there is probably a problem. It's all about priorities.
2006-11-13 01:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by cabonarakittie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both, if the person is online so much that its becoming a problem than they need to talk about the state of there union.
2006-11-13 01:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i m single i h ve 5 female frnds who r married
i dont know their hsband
1 is gettin married soon
2006-11-13 01:28:17 · answer #10 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋