My wife was dating a black guy before she met me.
For some reason - I could not get the idea of "him"...and my with with a black guy - out of my mind.
For awhile, I got her to talk about what it was like for her - how the guy looked - his size...etc. I know he was well-endowed...I had constant dreams about her hooking up with him again - just so I could see what it looked like!
She decided she did not want to talk about him or his cock to me anymore - SO...I was left thinking about things on my own.
In the years we taked about him - and talked about his size - i realized i wanted to see a black cock "live". And my wife made it clear she would never do that.
After looking at every Yahoo picture and video of well hung blacks guys - I finally decided - and met a guy on my own - just to get the obession out of my mind.
SO...I met a black guy - gave him oral sex - and am now ashamed i did that!
I am near homo-phobic...but it was something i HAD to do.
How can i get over this
2006-11-12 17:02:23 · 10 answers · asked by James M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Forget about it and move on!
2006-11-12 17:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by Harold 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not the answer you want but tell your wife its the only way you can ride your self of the guilt what you have done is cheat but not cheat as in the normal form you can only talk about this and you will have no choice becouse this gulit will eat you alive and you will end up having serious issues and falling to peices talk to her explain why and see if you can sort this out together she loves you or she would have done the black man thing try thats all you can do marrage works if you both try.
2006-11-13 01:13:55 · answer #2 · answered by angelsrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, you are talking about an obsession over something that happened before you married your wife. How in the world could you be obsessed over something for that long? Gee, I hope your wife finds out what you did and throws you to the curb because that is exactly what you deserve for being such a lousy husband!
2006-11-13 01:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say this, but you need to go get some help with your problem. What you did is serious. This is like you cheated on your spouse. Your behavior might be unforgivable. Please see a counselor right away. Before you resort to worse things.
2006-11-13 01:16:00 · answer #4 · answered by woman of steel 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Omg, well, you have her dont you? doesnt that count, even though that other guy was way bigger or whatever, why cant you just move on, she has moved on, with you, enjoy your life with her.... Who cares about the other guy!
2006-11-13 01:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You will benefit from private counseling for all of your issues; also seek forgiveness from God and forgive yourself, so you are at peace. Be thankful for the wife you have.
2006-11-13 01:27:06 · answer #6 · answered by rosesbloom7 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
DUDE! you got some serious ISSUSES
2006-11-13 01:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by Lace 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are playing with fire, be calm down and relax
2006-11-13 01:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all I have to say is ...
ONCE YOU BLACK YOU NEVER GO BACK...
2006-11-13 01:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ur one sick FREAK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-13 01:04:52 · answer #10 · answered by sandy k 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋