can you still do things like...hang out w/ your friends whenever....show up at their place whenever...sleepover at their place whenever....stuff like that
2006-11-12 16:36:09 · 16 answers · asked by Ry126 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to balance time with him and with your friends. Setting expectations is important so that one party will not feel bitterness towards the other. There may be a night when he wants to go have a beer with friends or watch football, and you can go hang with your lady friends. Other times u will attend events as a couple. It is a balancing act made easier by talking about it.
2006-11-13 02:31:06 · answer #1 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what you two agree upon for hanging with friends. When you get married you can't act like a teenager. Sleepovers don't exist after marriage for the most part, esp if they live in town. YOU AREN'T A TEENAGER ANYMORE ONCE YOU GET MARRIED, NO MATTER THE AGE.
when i got married i wanted to spend all my time with my husband, at home. i like to hang with my friends but now most of them are coupled and its a lot of fun.
2006-11-12 16:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but not all the time, its like you wouldnt want your husband to always be with his friends and do things like if he was still single, and no you cant sleepover at friends unless you and your husband get in an argument lol.*
2006-11-12 16:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ry126
Myself as an understanding and trusting husband have no problem that my wife sleepover at her girlfriends house. and the same goes for my wife..(my fishing buddy).. the secret is does your husband know your friends? if not mabey it about time to introduce them so he can become comfortable with them..and viceversa
2006-11-12 16:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by Jim M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. When you get married you have a responsibility to your partner, you might want to look over the marriage vows before you get married, they are basically a verbal contract you make with your partner. If you can't keep that contract I suggest you don't get married.
2006-11-12 17:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you marry someone you love and find your self wanting to stay somewhere elese at night you might not should get married when you get married you become one do things togeather and spent time togethr that doenst mena you cant have your own friends but never leave your spouse out and always put him first ahead of friends
2006-11-12 18:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 5 years and once in a while I will stay with my cousin or my Mom. But if I want to stay with friends I am probably doing something wrong.
2006-11-12 16:39:43 · answer #7 · answered by Kathy D 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i m sure we all want to hold onto sumpart of our pre marriage part..and maybe we shud..but we have to make changes..hanging out wit frends, sleepovers r all nice and accepted as long as u have gud understanding wit ur partner and do it in moderation....
2006-11-12 16:55:07 · answer #8 · answered by danny's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because you will be married and your life isn't all yours anymore. but if you want to do all of that stuff why would you get married if your not ready to give up that life style. no husband will want his wife out all time of night or sleeping over at a friend house. don't get married if you want to do all of that stuff.
2006-11-12 16:40:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
spouse is number 1 - all the others are number 2 - that's slogan in love
2006-11-12 16:43:12 · answer #10 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋