Ok,im 24 my husband is 41 and extremely wealthy,We've been married 3 years,but i can't stop cheating on him ive cheated on him 11 times in the past 3 years...he's becoming suspicious and im afraid if i tell him the truth he'll hurt me or take away the generous income im used to,I need his money to pay for our kids and my monthy expenses ( getting my nails done,my hair done,clothes)so divorce is out of the question... What can i say to him to ease his mind about his suspicions so he thinks im not cheating? what are some good excuses to use when ive been out all night and smell like liqour and male perfume? PLZ HELP? and is there a way to hide text messages from my sex buddies with out making it look like i have a lock on my cell phone?
2006-11-12 18:23:39 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
suck and swallow girlfriend and take it in the butt.
2006-11-12 18:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Christopher 1 · 4⤊ 8⤋
Um. Yea. You have some issues. First of all, hes old enough to be your dad. And you 're only with him for the money. You are a gold digger. You need to stop or tell him that you cheated on him once. And leave him. You dont want to be with him. You're not happy. So dont be with him. You love his money. If you dont tell him now hes going to find out later and its going to get alot worse. And just delete the messages. Then they wont be there and you wont have to worry. And use perfume or something and stop making it so obvious by being out all night long. God I'm 19 and Im smarter than you. You really do need help.
2006-11-12 18:35:35 · answer #2 · answered by Care Bear 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You know lady you seem like the biggest a s s and shallow person I have ever heard of!!!! You want a free ride ???? Try to see if one of you spineless little boyfriends is willing to take care of your slimy needs...gosh I hope your kids are too young to see what a materialistic slob you are. So you are used to the life style and don't want to give it up...seems like you already made that choice...this husband of your is going to be looked at like a champ in the court system when he finds out about your double life!! Get a job and take care of yourself ...and if I were you I'd show a little integrity and tell the man what a callous, selfish brat you've been!! While your confessing you might want to pray for forgiveness so that Karma doesn't come around later in life and bite your cheatin' self in the a s s!!!
I don't know whats harder 1) knowing your wife cheated on you several times 2) knowing your mom would rather prostitute herself to your dad to maintain a certain lifestyle!!!
Get over yourself !!! You seem like a little brat who never grew up!!
2006-11-12 18:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
U Should be grateful that hes stupid enough to marry ur young behind and take those risks of you cheating and giving the poor man and STD or AIDS. I mean if it hasn't crossed his mind he is then very naieve....look into your children's happy faces and realize that it's not worth it unless you plan on leaving him. your case sounds like a typical GOLD DIGGER...and you say black people are horrible on "I caught my daughter with a black man" So I guess that Ugly Child of yours is the only one that is from the two of y'all being hes far much older and old enough to be your DAD(maybe) and that's why u cant look at it, or let me guess your trying to off your kid at the same time by OD of Alcohol.. GET A GRIP. Enjoy Life and Stop being a parasite.
2006-11-13 06:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jsmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are nothing but gold digging trailer trash. I hope your husband finds out, gets custody of the kids because you are a disgusting unfit mother & he dumps you back into the gutter you crawled out of.....
There, did that help????
By the way, if you are going to come on here & lie, at least try to remember other questions you have asked. From you other questions, I would say you ONLY WISH you were who you say you are.
According to your questions, you are "only" 24 & have "only" been married 3 years & YET you have 5 kids....
Why don't you ask why you are lousy compulsive liar??????
2006-11-12 18:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your going to end up in court --- and the best part is that you will desire the lack of things you will get. By the time he get's done with you not only will you be out on your ear but your going to lose the children also. The court will be afraid of your passing AID's on to your children and husband, you better believe he will get the kids.. You will get nothing.. your going to get yours lol
2006-11-12 18:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by denfasr 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your pretty selfish, if you don't want to get caught then quit cheating. How would you feel if he cheated on you? You really need to grow up, how do you think you'd feel when your kids grow up if someone cheated on one of them? Do you even care? That's how your hubby will feel when he finally catches you and he will. Remember "what goes around comes around"
If your not happy with him then leave him and let him go on with his life. Money isn't everything. plus you could go to work so YOU can afford to get YOUR nails done and all the other goodies you like and think you need.
2006-11-12 18:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Doesn't sound like you love him for him but only for his money. If you have children your children will receive child support if you get custody. But as for you if you don't want to be with him and are having sex other place just end it. He deserves to be happy with someone that can love him. You need to stop being a child esp if you have children of your own. That's not much of a role model for your kids to have. Mommyblues
2006-11-12 21:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by mommyblues78 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
actually I don't like the way you act, but if you ask for advice here's one - the best way of defense is attack!
instead of trying to cover your trail, show him that you don't trust him and you are jealous, check his phone, mail, pockets, try to be annoying, try to catch something that "you don't like" and then throw hysteric, after that you can make everything look like revenge, for example: you come home late - tell him that you feel that he cares about "others" more than you that is why you are doing that. if by accident you have a male perfume smell - tell him that you did that on purpose to make him jealous.
I hope you got the point - try to turn everything around and put all guilt on him.
At the end I want to repeat that I don't like the way you act, your husband deserves more respect from you and he is not just a "bad of money" he is a human being and deserves to be happy too.
Good Luck, I'm not the one to judge you!
2006-11-12 18:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Lady, you need to go to college get a job and take care of yourself instead of relying on someone else to take care of you. I wish you weren't such a skank because I'm sure your husband is a nice man and loves you very much. You don't deserve it. You don't deserve his money, his children, his love, and anything that he gives. You are what we in my neighborhood call a mooch or a bum. Gold digger. I hope he gets custody of his children and welfare rejects your sorry ***.
2006-11-12 18:29:24 · answer #10 · answered by kissmeximitalian 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop cheating immediatly, do it for the kids, and tell him you need to make it more interesting, and want more fun, tell him to sexier LOL or whatever ,just dont cheat, you are not worth it, at all , if you cheat, you are damn lucky, he probabably does know, and is rich enough to have you followed, lol.
2006-11-12 18:27:18 · answer #11 · answered by Fuzz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋