2006-11-12 01:06:45 · 11 answers · asked by GratefulFlower03 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dear its easy dont look back,if he dosent love you as much as you do so even after 100 years you have to stop loving him and start looking for some1 who deserve you, i will tell you a Quote i realy love it, it might help you,
If you love someone, Set him free...
If he comes back, he's yours,
If he doesn't, he never was....
so you have to belive this because its true, start new life with new faith that what happen already happen,dont look back or even start asking your self why this happen to me? ok because you are going to miss alot of great life moments by asking your self how i stop loving or doning......?its easy leave evrything to god and start moving and dont look back, life is easy,get your self busy and its going to work,and as the quote said if he is yours he will be yours,go girl enjoy your life you are great but you have to trust your self more(stand infront of mirror and keep saying am great and will find some1 who can match me)god bless you dear.
2006-11-12 01:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by wiwi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am not sure if you are married or not but I presume that you are not.....ask yourself when all this happened and at what stage it stopped? What was the turning point that made you say that you have decided to call it quits? Could anything have been done to salvage the relationship? Perhaps you are blaming yourself but discuss the other viewpoint also. Love has no end... it happens gradually and over time...If it has ended after seven years...what makes you so sure that another relationship will happen again when you cannot keep the last one?
2006-11-12 01:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by singirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many things you can do to put him out of your mind. Travel outside the country, go back to school, find a new hobby or sport as a point of release-- get really good at it by practicing it whenever you feel depressed. Good luck!
2006-11-12 01:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by reba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you begin by loving your self since you've been with your self longer than with your lover.Then remember that life is a journey meant to lead you to self happiness and self love. Each relationship broken or not teaches us about our selves,not about others,but about our selves,what we want and don't.what we'll stand for and what we won't.how much love we have for our selves and what we will give in return for love received.Move to the next step and next experience and use all you've learned to be happy.Learn from the last journey and each new one will be better.Rise like the sun and start all new and find the beauty in your search for love,just don't forget to love self too.
2006-11-12 01:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't ... there will always be a piece of you that will love & care for this person ... you need to start getting your life back, find out who you are with out this person ... find out what you want out of life and get it back on track ... you need to take it one day at a time and realize you'll have good days & bad days ... but soon the good days will take over.
I don't know what happened to you but I do wish you luck and hope you realize that life does get easier it just takes time ....
2006-11-12 01:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don,t you car,t just wipe someones who been apart of your life for 7 year out of your life, it takes time to adjust to the new circumstances which have now entered your life give yourself that time and take each day as it comes you will get stronger
good luck for the future
2006-11-12 01:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by lizella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there. It's incredibly hard . I moved from N.Y. to FL and it took me a year before the hurt and crying was over. But I finally got over it. As they say, time heals all wounds. Not seeing him made it easier.
2006-11-12 04:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by marlene g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just keep living your life and try to be happy. It happened to me when my husband of 7 years cheated and I divorced him. You go on and then one day you realize that he is no longer of any importance to you. It helped me to think : He is the one who is the loser in this because I am no longer in his life.
2006-11-12 01:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S HARD, BUT YOU CAN DO IT. I WAS IN LOVE WITH A GUY FOR OVER 10 YRS. FINALLY LEFT HIM ALONE WHEN HE LEFT ME FOR A WOMAN 20 YRS OLDER THAN HIM. HE WAS VERY ABUSIVE MENTALLY. I STILL CARE FOR HIM, BUT WOULD NEVER GO BACK. I HAVE A NEW LOVE NOW THAT WOULD NEVER TREAT ME BAD. GOOD LUCK
2006-11-12 01:48:58 · answer #9 · answered by kimandkaitlyn2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first n foremost stop self pitying n get busy...take up some sport,will help you regain your self confidence,make new friends n move on!good luck!
2006-11-12 02:05:37 · answer #10 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋