i am married ,love my wife, but need more {sex}
2006-11-12 11:51:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you two need to have a talk??????
2006-11-12 11:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by **ZARA** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have several options, havent you?
1. Tell your wife how you feel and see if she is prepared to let you have more sex - not necessarily penetrative.
2. Masturbate
3. Find someone to have sex with by (a) having an affair or (b) seeing a prostitute.
4. Accepting the situation
Only you can know what's best or possible for you. Having an affair, even one just for sex, is likely to destroy your marriage.
2006-11-12 20:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what exactly is the question? Women have a lower sex drive most of the time, but with the right lover it can be reved up. Take more time with her and make sure she enjoys it before you do. Also some nonsexual touching makes a big difference on how often women want sex. Also make sure she is not doing all the work around the house to where she is too tired.
2006-11-12 12:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
women have their sexual peak around 40. now i don't know how old you and your wife are but she's probably gagging for it too.
think about anything that might have changed since you got together. maybe there's something putting her off. maybe she's not finding you as attractive as she used to or maybe she feels as she is getting older she is becoming less attractive and she doesn't want you to see her that way. maybe a busy lifestyle means she's too tired.
i suggest you do everything you can to make her feel special again and don't pressure her. when you are being intimate with her don't forget lots of foreplay and make sure you put her 1st. hopefully the sex will become more frequent if she feels good about it. and tell her after how much you love her and don't just roll over and go to sleep (or fall asleep on top of her as my boyfriend has a habit of doing to me).
2006-11-12 12:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by merihell75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should consult a doctor....Is it that she doesn't want it at all or not as much as you?...If she never wants to and is on birth control, that can cause her sex drive to go away.....and if you have sex often but you want more....Have you ever tried a male masturbation sleeve?....it's a sex toy for men....It looks and supposably feels like a real vagina....just a thought....
2006-11-12 12:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by YourGSpot.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry i thought you asked "would like more love" thats not the same as want more sex. if its love you want set the scene we are animals you need to please your partner so that you are appealing its all up to you .
good luck
2006-11-13 09:12:10 · answer #6 · answered by PETER J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her, romance her, give her opportunity to do it. Do your share of the housework and then some to free her to have sexual thougths of you instead of the laundry.
2006-11-12 12:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by fancyname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first and foremost,
you are confused!
sit down with urself and reflect abt it-love or sex?
unless you get that straight, there is no going further!!
2006-11-12 12:03:32 · answer #8 · answered by sj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even think about cheating on her!! That would not be fair to her. Have you tried actually asking her or seducing her?
2006-11-12 11:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by doodlenatty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mrs about it, maybe she'd like more too?
2006-11-13 10:04:04 · answer #10 · answered by Lindan5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her
YOU WANT MORE
and you won't take no for an answer
2006-11-12 11:59:17 · answer #11 · answered by helloooo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋