if you could start over knowning what you ve been through
would you have children again?
2006-11-12 06:24:16 · 21 answers · asked by girl24gr 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The purpose of my life is to be a mother, so I would never wish to not have children. I plan on having more children even.
2006-11-12 06:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't exactly know what you question means... but I might have an idea... so I will say this, I adore my children (age 4 & 7 mo. old) and with as hard of work as it can be I would do it over & again 10 times! I just love everything about it and my hubby agrees... being parents is the best... hard work, but so rewarding! Now both of us were brought up in fairly abusive homes (and this might be more of what your question implies).... but we decided we would raise our kids differently w/ love, patience & kindness.... and w/ that said, yes, we would do it again. Hope this answers your question a bit. If you are not a parent I highly recommend it someday when you meet the person of your dreams, kids sure do enrich your love for each other & complete a family. God bless! :)
2006-11-12 14:29:38 · answer #2 · answered by Francis Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, it's not always easy. I love my kids (11 & 7) more than anything in the world. They drive me crazy; they make me laugh; they hug me as they walk by and I cannot imagine my life without them. My husband comes home and the first thing he asks about (after he kisses me) is the kids. We try and spend as much time with them now so that they have a stable base for the teen years when we will have less influence over them. I cannot imagine my life without them and would absolutely do it again. What if our parents had decided not to have children?
2006-11-12 15:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by abbacchus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see.. I had my first child when I was 15, my third by the time I was 19, and to date, I now have five children! To set the record straight, I was one of those who didn't like children for whatever reason. God gave me a whole slew of them anyways.. My days are never easy, nor am I ever bored. Housework is never done, yet i'm content with whatever chores are done (or lack there of). I'm never alone, barely have time to myself... but when the house is empty, i'm not happy. Money is always scarce, yet I feel like the richest person in the world! HMmMmm..... I would'nt change a thing:)
2006-11-12 14:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by wherenai 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would have at least 3 children. They are a source of joy in life.
Its what keeps you going and makes you get up in the morning.
2006-11-12 14:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.I would still have kids.They have been my strength through some tough times and a big pain in the butt others.I would change any of it as far as the kids go but I would go back and change there crazy a## mother.
2006-11-12 14:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. There are tough times but I would have had more than 2 if I knew how fast it would go and how much of a blessing they would prove to be :-)
2006-11-12 21:04:18 · answer #7 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Many times have been hard but many have been wonderful. Besides what better excuse to play at Chuckee Cheese?
2006-11-12 14:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
Did not even have to think about that for a second.
Might not have answered so quickly when they were little, or teenagers or even young adults. But yes, unequivocally yes.
2006-11-12 14:27:12 · answer #9 · answered by lilygateau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because everything I've been through has made me a stronger and better person for it. Good luck.
2006-11-12 14:26:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋