my husband watches p.o.r.n. but refuses to admit it. what so i do. he lies to me about it
2006-11-12 06:25:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to make him see that its an addiction. It wont do him or you any good if it carries on.
2006-11-12 06:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you get angry because he watches ****, think why he is doing that in the first place...And as a solution, you should try to surprise him while he's watching p.o.r.n.....he will be very ashamed...
2006-11-12 14:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by Bogo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a addiction. Tell him in no uncertain terms: 1) your putting a key logger with a password on the computer, 2) That if anything shows on it, or you find any magazines, etc, that 3) your divorce lawyer will contact him. And stick to it. Tell him to get help and that you will go to the sessions with him if needed.
2006-11-12 14:28:02 · answer #3 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
my husband use to do the same thing i went out and bought one and waited till he got home and ask him to watch this cool movie i had just rented so he sat down and i turned it on ...........he freak out and ask me why i had rented that i told him isn't it better to lay the cards out on the table rather than lying about stuff ........we are all adults here .........my husband finally admitted he did watch them and that he was sorry ........it hurt me for a while to know that he had lied but its OK now i just leave him alone and he hasn't watched one in over 11months so i must have really scared him its not that i care if he watched it its a guy thing it was that he was lying ..................i think he thought it was going to hurt my feeling if he would watch them so he would lie not knowing that the lie hurt more than anything else..................good luck
2006-11-12 14:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by mari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i caught my fiancee doing the same thing, he had a real big problem with it, i got so damn tired of telling to quit doing it, and that he was disrespecting my, so one day i started looking up men ,and he didnt like that to well, i even saved a naked man as my screen saver just to piss him off, try letting him know that you looked up men and he might have a change of heart, i didnt want to even look it up,yes it made me sick , but its worth a try
2006-11-12 14:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by wanda h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My response to that is, Yes I watch porn so what?
2006-11-12 14:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let him watch it, who cares
2006-11-12 14:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Divorce him!
2006-11-12 14:27:36 · answer #8 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋