How do you end a internet fling when you feel it is getting out of control...never met in person, but it is getting more in depth with conversation and both are married?
2006-11-12 22:44:40 · 35 answers · asked by tundrastomer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just stop, why would you cheat on your spouse? Have you no morals?
2006-11-12 23:04:18 · answer #1 · answered by Mike J 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've never met? so what is the problem? Cease any and all communications---Change your email address----Don't respond to telephone calls or cell calls---If the other person has your home # change it to an unlisted ######
You should really be ashamed of yourself by cheating on your spouse!!! You thought the grass was greener but---you've found out that grass over yonder had to many weeds that were hidden!!
Don't jump from the frying pan into the burning fire!!!!
Flirtatious, sexual chatting online will only lead to trouble!!!!! Why on earth would you put yourself in this situation in the 1st place?
Put the energy you did in these cyber conversations and put them to use with your own spouse------You might be surprized what your efforts will bring you.
2006-11-12 22:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI THERE! Well I guess to answer, I have experienced it myself!! It is SO hurtful... the person "sinned" gave you a very good answer and actually what he said, happened to me. I thought I had a FRIEND too and he dumped me for NO GOOD REASON at all that I know of...just one day got an Email that said, I can't correspond with you no more and I still to this day don't know what I did wrong. I have really been stressed out by this ALOT! In my case I was married , but not the other person. SO PLEASE be kind enough to FULLY explain the reason , so you don't hurt the person deeply like I have been hurt!!! THANKS for reading this and I hope you will take my advice besides "sinned's", if you ever did care for the person at all!
2006-11-16 20:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by a_moyars 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the same way you would end a real life affair. Just tell the other person how you feel and that you think that both of you are going to far. I believe that it is wrong to hide your ID or worst still change your ID. That move, to me, is cowardice. It is better to face the truth and tell the other person that you can't go further. Cheers
2006-11-12 23:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be hard emotionally but it should be easier 'cause it's only an internet realtionship. Don't contact the person and don't make ways to let the person contact you. It'll be hard at first 'cause the temptation could be there. If you really want to end the relationship with your heart, stop making a contact in any ways as possible.
2006-11-12 22:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't just ditch them without saying anything. tell them the truth. just blocking them or changing your screen name is a chickensh!t way of dealing with people with whom you have struck up a friendship, online or not.
tell them you feel it is going beyond friendship and you don't want to damage or undermine your primary relationship for obvious reasons. explain how although you have been physically faithful to your mate, you feel like your relationship is starting to drift into becoming an emotional affair, and that is not something you are willing to do.
they may feel the exact same way you do but for whatever reason were hesitant to say something.
2006-11-13 01:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by YumYumTree 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell the person you cannot continue. thank them for the good times and ask that they delete all info about you from their system as you do the same. If possible put a block on their email addy so they cannot contact you. Good Luck.
2006-11-12 23:28:15 · answer #7 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easiest option? log on and pretend to be the wife,,,"who is this? takes a woman with balls to argue the toss with the wife if she gets a say and if she does catch you out,,say you have been sprung and want to make amends with your wife,,you have ground to make up and it would be best to discontinue any further contact,,what can she really do? you have been caught out having it away behind the wifes back and if this were to happen you would have to choose then too so choose now and sort your marriage.
2006-11-12 22:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by lex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm i guess u just hv to get a restrain over urself, firstly u let loose and things went out of control, now its time u test ur will power and restarin urself, right here, all the best
2006-11-12 22:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by hmmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your email or IM and never speak to the person again. I've read tht people can become addictied to online chatting etc. Stop going to the computer and you won't be as tempted
2006-11-12 22:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by Mica 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell them what you are feeling and if that doesn't work block their e-mail and removed your profile from the site. Do not respond to any contact that they may try to make.
2006-11-12 22:47:54 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋