he needs his space to live, meet friends he desires, talk to people he likes but for me he does not give me my space. i am the detached type and he is the contrary always seeking attention from me. often i feel suffocated of this attitude and behaviour. pls advise
2006-11-12 22:32:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So dump him and seek out whatever it is your looking for out there. It's obvious its not him...
2006-11-12 22:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
communicate,communicate,communicate! If it`s completely irrational and speaking is unnecessary then he desires to get some help to attempt & examine what's causing this habit. I`m not a psychotherapist or something like that yet I have heard adult adult males react this way alot even as they`ve been dishonest. If that`s the case he desires to keep in mind that the reality will set him loose & on the different hand the reality will set you loose to boot.....or that is going to construct a clean starting up for you both.solid success.
2016-11-29 02:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good eveningggggggggg Indiaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa haiiiiiiiii aadrish this side pls first u study ur self what u r if u find different, means u r same as ur husband because u adopted some kind of nature u can't change it but u expect other and want to involve. how it can be possible mam first u mix with other and adopt their nature than u find no difference between u and ur husband. i think god made for each other. good evening India
2006-11-12 23:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by aadrish 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
Men are no doubt a little dominant , but then in ur case it is a little on the higher side. Break loose is the answer! Oops i don't mean seperation, but get bolder, defy him a little and start doing things u like...and i don't think it would take him time to realise and pay attention to u.
2006-11-12 23:59:45 · answer #4 · answered by Charmer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 30 yrs old, married since 2 yrs and going through the same situation. But here, its my wife.
She says she loves me so much that she wants me to be with her always and keep calling her every now and then when i am at my office.. I badly need some space to breathe... Keep ur fingers crossed my friend. There is a solution for every problem on earth.. Lets wait ........
2006-11-12 23:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please get a life of your own and have your own circle too. In any long term relationshjips both parties need breathing space .... keep in touch with old friends and so go out with them sometimes. Also keep yourself gainfully occuped . If these are early days into the relationship it is easier to set boundries! All the best!
2006-11-12 22:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by Rain 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him frankly about your feelings & interests.Give him examples where you have given him space to do things he likes.Tell him similarly you also need your space.If this does not work out seek help of marriage councellors.Keep divorce as the last option.
2006-11-14 23:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey...do u look beautiful. then he has insecurity feeling, if you go out. He does not have faith on ur committment towards him. make him understand...otherwise, he would become still worse...
make him understand that only he can be with u always, in mind, bed.
it looks you love him a lot. but sometimes you have to be little harsh to explain. avoide him for a couple of days in the bed. but these are only suggestions. u r right to take ur own decission.
2006-11-12 22:45:29 · answer #8 · answered by SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband is either being selfish or is suffering from an inferiority complex.Marriage is not bondage as he is making it to be for you.both of you are meant to compliment each other,help each other,respect each other's feelings & much more .it is meant to be something to be enjoyed,not endured like you are doing now.you did never lose your right as an individual when you married him,ok.so make him understand that,not by qaurelling but seat him down & make him understand how you feel.if that is not enough,talk to one of his friends about this.if that does not change him,go for counselling & lastly pray if you believe in the efficacy of prayer because,there is notting prayer cannot do.
2006-11-12 23:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by BLESSING A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act mechanical and ask him that you feel so depressed and you think perhaps a marriage counselor can help you out. Discuss this with a trained marriage counselor or psychiatrist.
2006-11-12 22:44:06 · answer #10 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fail to understand how others can help you about this. You need to talk to your husband to solve this problem. See if you find better answers. Good luck.
2006-11-13 04:06:14 · answer #11 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋