seem to sink in now i ve met a guy off the net who wants to give me all this what should i do i cant be unhappy forever surley please help xx
2006-11-12 23:52:54 · 7 answers · asked by mel s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It really doesnt matter if you have been married 2 months or 45 years, when you are not happy, then you are not happy. You need to make yourself happy. If not you will never be able to make someone else happy. But I would sit down and talk to him about what is going on. He does diserve that
2006-11-12 23:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by Saint 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A marriage of 12 years is too long to just throw down the drain. You should try talking this out with a counsellor or a professional, don't fall for the internet guy because it is VERY easy for someone to put a false act. Trust me, you'd be better off trying to mend your relationship. Good Luck =D
2006-11-13 08:07:49 · answer #2 · answered by thugster17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking. Men have a way of tuning out. I know, I'm one LoL. My wife starting writing letters to me. NO criticism. just tell him how U feel not how he should feel. Start with the good things about him and then open up your feelings. at the end ask him a question and wait for an answer. don't pressure him for an answer. It might take a few letters but he will should come around and start communicating. good luck.
2006-11-13 08:08:43 · answer #3 · answered by highlandkajun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you love him? so why go out to other people?
if he treats you right, doesn't hit or yell, buys you what you want, he loves you, just some don't so it as well as others, step back and take a look at the whole picture
2006-11-13 07:56:39 · answer #4 · answered by bluelitttt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you love him for 12 years Way are you look for some one easy now do you think he well be Betty thy your husband affine 12 years it may not take long for this one
2006-11-13 08:00:11 · answer #5 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE GET SOME COUNCELING.
IF THAT DON'T WORK.
MAYBE ITS TIME FOR A CHANGE.
WATCH OUT WHO YOU MEET OF THE INTERNET .
A LOT OF THEM ARE PLAYERS.
FIND MR RIGHT
2006-11-13 08:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was your question once again???
2006-11-13 07:56:19 · answer #7 · answered by Vishnu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋