if you are constantly looking for a significant other to make you happy, is this healthy? Surely this can only lead to disaster
2006-11-12 22:27:05 · 9 answers · asked by pill j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
your right
2006-11-12 22:30:04 · answer #1 · answered by traveller 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think a person needs to be happy and like themselves first before they can find true happiness with a significant other. You're right is not a healthy situation and many times can lead to disaster because the significant other may take advantage one way or another of the other person.
2006-11-13 06:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by pj_gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not healthy. It is called codependent. There are a couple of books out there that you can read and try counseling.
You should be happy just being by yourself. If you are not, you need to take a step back and look within yourself to see why it is you need someone else to make you happy. Counseling can be a great way to identify these traits and to fix them. Good luck.
2006-11-13 06:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It usually turns into a disaster.
2006-11-13 06:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HEY SLOW DOWN TAKE A BREATHER HERE YOU DONT NEED A MATE TO BE HAPPY YOUR GOING WAY TO FAST HERE SLOW DOWN ENJOY LIFE AS IT COMES GOOD GOD DONT BE IN A HURRY TO FIND SOME ONE LET GOD DO THE WORK FOR YA WHEN MR OR MRS RIGHT COMES ALONG YOUR HEART WILL LET YA KNOW MEAN TIME GO WITH THE FLOW OF LIFE AS I SAY YOU DONT NEED SOME ONE TO BE HAPPY
2006-11-13 06:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by joecarlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One should first be happy with themselves, then the rest will fall into place.
2006-11-13 06:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you have to be happy with yourself before you are happy with anyone else.
2006-11-13 10:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very unhealthy. you should make yourself happy first.
2006-11-13 06:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i agree. let them look for you.
2006-11-13 06:28:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋